It is inevitable to meet people who are deep in the city in their work and life. If they encounter such people carelessly, they will be calculated. So what are the performances of those who are deep in the city? The following points are for reference. Be careful when you meet such people.
1. Like purposeful praise;
Such people often express their praise to high-level leaders, people with connections and influence, and they don't pay attention to people with little value, or even treat them coldly. Such kneeling and licking leaders is the first performance of Chengfu Shen.
2. When listening to others, be thoughtful;
When listening to others, I always think, as if my heart is calculating something. Such people are often thinking about the weaknesses of others' speech, looking for the weaknesses of others' speech, and will be used as a handle to control others in the future.
3. Do not like to say hello;
Like to act first and play afterwards, always cold to frighten others. Always like this, you will create trouble and difficulties for others, while you will watch the fire from the shore.
4. Always look for objective reasons and shirk responsibility when making statements;
People always blame others for their mistakes. Instead of looking for reasons from themselves, they frame others. Doing things at the expense of others for their own benefit. It is a common trick of those who are high in the city government to lead trouble to the east.
5. Offering flowers to Buddha to win people's hearts;
When paying dividends, he was the most active and praised everyone. It seemed that his achievements were due to him. This act of offering flowers to Buddha and taking the opportunity to win people's hearts was the performance of Chengfu Shen.
We must meet all kinds of people in our work and life. We need to understand everyone's habits to judge who is worthy of deep friendship and who must be on guard.
