What if girls are not easy to chase? Many Laotie always want to pursue the girl they like, but they have their own concerns and fear of being rejected. Don't worry, here are two tips to help you easily catch up with the girl you like.
Everyone has a love for beauty. What's more, in today's age when beauty is justice, most of the old ironmongers are clamouring for beautiful little sisters. As a result, everyone has a heart of thieves but no guts. Don't ask why they are so counselled. What they must think is: "She is so beautiful, she must have a boyfriend"; "You must look down on me for being so beautiful"; "There are too many men chasing her. I don't want to be a spare tire."
There is no denying that beautiful girls are loved by everyone, but those beautiful girls who seem to have many pursuers are really easy to chase. I know many boys think that those goddesses who wear luxury goods, carry famous brand bags, go out to pick up and see off in luxury cars, eat Michelin, and can't drive a Ferrari alone will definitely look down on them.
Brother dei, you obviously look at girls with colored glasses. Who said that girls' beauty must be set off by money? You think that beautiful girls are superior only because you treat them as goddesses from the bottom of your heart, ignoring that she is also a person with flesh and blood. They are also eager to meet the person they like and have a sweet love. Why can't the man who fulfills her dream be you?
And even if you can't catch it, you won't lose anything; But once you catch up with her, you will have a girlfriend who looks like a fairy. It can be said that it is a sure thing.
Here are some tips for chasing the goddess. As long as you can understand these skills and finally master them, it is not too difficult to make the goddess move.
Skill 1: Skillfully use FAB rules
FAB rule is one of the classic sales language, that is, the rule of commodity attributes, functions and benefits. For example, if you want to sell a product, you must first introduce the specific properties of the product, then tell the user the role of the product, and finally explain what benefits the product can bring to the user. Only by doing this can users pay the bill.
In the same way, when chasing girls, we can also regard ourselves as a commodity, and then try to make girls accept it. First of all, we need to understand our own attributes. For example, if you are a sports man, you can focus on your love of sports when chatting with girls.
When a girl understands your attributes, she will go to the next step, that is, to explain the role and benefits you can bring to her when you are with her, For example, you can say to girls, "I usually prefer to keep fit. I go to the gym when I am free. I like to run at night. If we have a chance, we can run together." The function here is to bring a sense of security to girls, and the benefit is to help girls manage their bodies. The more beautiful the girls are, the more they care about image management, so it is easy for sports boys to interest beautiful girls.
In addition to sports personnel, travel personnel, learning bully personnel, leadership personnel, etc. are all deadly attractive to girls. In a word, you must first find your own position and show yourself to girls, so that they may be interested in you.
Even if the Goddess is so cold, she needs care and companionship just like ordinary girls. Especially girls who have been single for a long time are more likely to be moved by men who care about her. So as long as you understand the needs of a girl, and you just meet her needs, you are likely to get together.
Maybe someone will say that I can't meet the requirements of the goddess at all. It doesn't matter. Let's teach them another move, that is, to make girls interested in you with the help of "differentiated self compensation psychology".
Skill 2: Differential self compensation psychology
Differential self compensation psychology is a psychological adaptation mechanism, that is, human beings develop their strengths and advantages in other aspects in order to overcome their physiological defects or psychological inferiority, and then achieve the compensation effect.
For example: blind people can't see with their eyes, so their hearing or other senses will be extremely sharp to compensate for their visual defects. Then in love, differentiated self compensation can only be achieved through partners.
How to operate it? For example, if you find that although the goddess is beautiful and has strong abilities in all aspects, she has little social experience and is not smooth enough, and you just have high emotional intelligence and strong social skills, you can help her deal with some interpersonal relationships that she cannot cope with in the process of getting along with a girl. In this way, you will be very attractive to her;
In fact, careful Laotie may find that some excellent girls in real life, but her boyfriend is not so outstanding, and even the two will look very mismatched when they get together. The next time you see this phenomenon, you don't have to smoke all night to think about where you lost. This is the real case of differentiated self compensation psychology.
Conclusion:
Real love is achieved through hard work. When you meet a girl you like, you should pursue it boldly. When you still have courage, you should pursue it boldly. However, while pursuing, we also need to master skills, so that we can know ourselves and the enemy well, and the probability of success is greater.
