After all, after a marriage baptism, knowing marriage, you will be more cautious and looking forward to finding a suitable partner for your marriage.
One. It's not that divorce won't be happy, but that divorced people are rarely happy, and people who don't divorce are not necessarily happy, so this can't be generalized, a person has to see if she's happy? What is she after? Whatever he wants to have, he will naturally get a sense of happiness differently.
Two. If he was not happy when he was not divorced, although the family was simple and simple, it would not be short of food and clothing. But her husband is idle all day long, doesn't do his job, and doesn't want to go out to support his family, so he knows that he plays mahjong or is lazy. In such a marriage, even if you keep sticking to it, he will never be happy. So when looking for a partner, we must see this person clearly, don't want him to be good-looking, tall and handsome. It depends on whether he is a person who lives a life?
Three. After the divorce, although the person we were looking for was not tall and handsome, he was just an ordinary worker who was not good-looking, not tall, and ordinary. But she is very diligent, can endure hardships, do things, can insist on getting up early every day and working late, supporting her family, never complaining to her wife, very hard, every day when she comes back, she will bring back some fruits that her wife is willing to eat, care about it, such a man. Even if he earns a little less, he knows that working hard to earn money to support his family makes you feel very down-to-earth. Then we think this is happiness. Don't look at us as a second marriage. Reconstituted family. But this relationship cherishes each other, and if you work hard, life will definitely get better and better. So are you happy after the divorce? It depends on how the two people go to run the business. It depends on what you want to achieve and what kind of life you are pursuing. It depends on whether you can see people?
Second-married couples, if they have children in common, will definitely live a happier life! At present, many second-married couples do not have good results because they do not have their own common love crystallization. Of course, those who are middle-aged and elderly have passed the age of childbearing, except for those who are too old. If two people have children, they will enhance the man's sense of responsibility for the first time, and they will also let the woman release her for the first time regardless of whether she is married for the first time or the second time, and it is very important to affirm the person chosen. Affectionate, responsible people are commendable, and I have also seen neighbor men remarry and devote themselves to the woman's children. But children who are relatively common will make people more motivated to struggle and have the responsibility to protect.
I myself remarried after a divorce. When I met him again, I felt that he was a person who was particularly suitable for marriage, down-to-earth, stable, and very good to me. Four years of such a happy life have passed. Because of the good relationship, in the fifth year, we decided to buy a house together and each took out our savings. We used to have our own houses. The conflict came during the process of buying a house, and my name was written on the house because he couldn't take out a loan. He said let me do half to him, and I said it had to be like this, I wanted to make him feel safe. And he said that his semi-justice was given to his child, because he was older than me, and he went first, and the house could not be given to me. I don't agree, I said that if you do anything, I will be displaced, there will be no place to live, and we can pay money to compensate for your children. He said that the two of us are very suitable for being together, but unfortunately they are not the original match. It's a pity that there are no children in common. I also want to fulfill my responsibilities.
I understand him very well, but I understand that the two of them are distracted after all. With his person, if we have children in common, we will build a cohesive family. Eventually, I sold my old house, gave him his money back, and the new house was my own. so as not to be confused in the future. Now everyone understands everything in their hearts, and they get along very rationally. I understood a lot, but I also had a sense of loss because of distraction. Love, children are the crystallization of love, but also the bond of husband and wife. A man who has been working hard all day, if he sees his lovely eldest son or daughter, the fatigue will disappear in an instant. Even if two people occasionally have a small quarrel, as long as they see the child, all the gloom will disappear without a trace. Children are a testimony to the relationship between husband and wife, and a microcosm of the growth of a small family. Children are the driving force of fathers' hard work, and they are also the most critical factor in family happiness!
First: the first marriage, the happiness index is 61.71%
Second: remarriage, the happiness index is 47.93%.
Second: both parties have no children in their second marriage, and the happiness index is about 41.52%.
Fourth: both parties have children in their second marriage, and the happiness index is about 22.4%.
Fifth: The man takes the girl in the second marriage, and the happiness index is about 19.44%.
Sixth: The woman takes the girl in her second marriage, and the happiness index is about 17.49%.
Seventh: The man has a boy in his second marriage, and the happiness index is about 11.32%.
Eighth: The woman takes a boy in her second marriage, and the happiness index is about 3.17%.
In other words, if you want to get married for the second time after divorce, it is simply difficult to find happiness, and it is difficult to go to the sky.
The reason why so many people still think about divorce is because they think that after divorce, remarriage will be happier than marriage, but this is not the case.
If you want to improve the happiness index of the second marriage, it is obviously unrealistic to rely on love, and the further maintenance of the relationship between the two must have a "medium" to maintain happiness. For example, two people have another child together; There is material support and support; Throw away all the past and start all over again; share common hobbies and interests; Time makes people's second reunion and so on.
