Long-distance relationships are not strangers, and they happen from time to time in life, from a personal point of view, long-distance relationships are almost impossible to have a perfect ending, but many times for feelings everyone is preaching, if the two feelings are long, how can it be said that in the morning and twilight, just imagine that everyone has their own new environment, has different opportunities, and has honed different mentality and thinking in the new environment, even if it is different compared with their previous ones, not to mention the partners who are separated from each other, but the relationship is in conflict with reason, maybe it is because of each other's deep feelings, I want to try to give each other a chance, try to see if you can finally be together, then if you must try, pay attention to the following points in a long-distance relationship
1. Establish a "system of rules" for the relationship
There are no rules, not only for work, but also for relationships, and for partners who are separated from each other. The problem of distance is inevitably lonely and left out, and the process of fixed contact can avoid snubbing each other because of the busyness of work or things, and save the possibility of cranky thinking, you can develop a long-distance system before separation, what time is the phone time, when can you video chat, of course, you can increase the frequency when you are free, but at least you must strictly abide by the rules, and you can arrange the time reasonably, so that the working time becomes more abundant.
2. Share more
While keeping in touch, share more gonzo around you, don't feel that things are not worth mentioning, and don't talk to the other party, and the other party should not dislike the lack of interest and show impatience, which will hit the confidence and mood of the other party's chat, the hearts of each other in long-distance relationships are actually very fragile, a little change will touch their minds, tell each other about the happiness and troubles in their hearts, even the virtual world can become the best communication for the time being, so that the other party can feel the feeling of you accompanying you.
3. Create surprises
Surprise is the conciliator in the two feelings, even if the two people who stay together every day need it, not to mention the separation of the two places, if there is a condition, of course, it is best for you to appear in person, but the reality does not allow, now the network is so developed, the express delivery can also help you bring your heart and surprises, the occasional surprise and small gift, not only the value of the material itself, but through this behavior let her know that you are still concerned about her in your heart, that is a moment of care and care, will be very moved, will naturally warm up the feelings.
4. Trust each other
When separating the two places, the most basic condition is to trust each other, when you can't meet together every day, the sense of crisis in the distance will inevitably increase, worry that TA can't help but tempt to get a new love, but also worry about feeling bored when you don't have yourself and go to ambiguous conversations, all day long suspicious emotions will naturally put pressure on each other, so that the partner feels depressed and tired, since you have decided on a long-distance relationship, please choose to trust TA without reservation, until you really find substantial evidence, maybe at this moment you will feel unfair, such a entanglement is not necessary, because when you decide on a long-distance relationship, you are destined to pay more difficult psychological preparation than ordinary love, since the choice has been made, then why torture each other and yourself again.
The success rate of long-distance relationships is low. After enduring a long period of lovesickness and crossing the double test of space and time, they successfully achieved positive results. But there are also some people's romances that are unsustainable in long-term long-distance torment.
Long-distance relationships are a test of loyalty, and many long-distance couples have the experience of being betrayed or have long-term doubts, and in the end the relationship is only a piece of chicken feathers. But from another point of view: "a small farewell is better than a newlywed", and appropriate division is conducive to reducing contradictions and enhancing feelings.
In fact, the ending is always contained in one choice after another. If you want your long-distance relationship to end, it is important to choose how to manage your relationship. Therefore, in order to maintain a long-distance relationship, we need to do much more than when we are together.
What can keep "love" fresh is the "love" of each other. Whether it's a long distance or not, the most important job in a relationship is to maintain the love between you.
It is love to know each other, to care for each other is love, and to remain loyal and trusting is love. In the final analysis, what we need to work on is not how to trap lovers in a long-distance relationship, but how to convey love in a long-distance relationship.
Therefore, at such an important time as New Year's Eve, of course, we must do everything possible to meet exclusively, which is not only a catharsis of love, but also a manifestation of a sense of ritual.
Everyone knows that there are very few long-distance relationships that can go to the end, and they will also think that they are great. Because long-distance relationships are difficult, everyone can't see each other often, and they can't accompany each other in time when they need each other the most, as long as they rely on mobile phones to convey warmth, and it is easy to have conflicts, and it is difficult to solve conflicts when they are not by each other's side. In fact, the essence of many problems comes from wanting to see each other.
So a long-distance relationship will be difficult, they are separated, they can't accompany each other during the festival, and they don't know each other's joys and sorrows, they can't share and celebrate with him when he's happy, they can only send some blessings through their mobile phones, they can't take care of her by his side when he's sick, they can only tell him to take medicine and take care of themselves, and they can't comfort her when she's sad, and they can only listen to him through his mobile phone.
Therefore, the long-distance relationship often makes him feel that he is still alone, and he still needs to rely on himself for everything, and what the other party gives him is just a kind of spiritual sustenance, and he lets himself know that there is such a person who has been with him, but he can't get his warmth around him.
And if there are other boys around me, I think I will definitely consider whether to give up this relationship, so these various phenomena will lead to a very low success rate of long-distance relationships, because two people are really tired when they are separated, and it is easy for two people to have conflicts around them, not to mention separating the two places, it will be more difficult, so those who can survive the long-distance relationship to the end must be great, they can beat the distance, and their feelings for each other are very strong, these are not a problem for them。 But there are also many long-distance couples who have ended the long-distance relationship with the continuous efforts of two people, and live happily together, although his success rate is low, but I think as long as two people love each other, tolerate each other, and are full of trust, they must be able to beat the distance.
