If you want to manage a relationship well, it is actually not easy, because two people need to maintain it together and face all the difficulties in life together. My boyfriend told me that he was insecure, what should I do? If the boy says that he is insecure about his object, to a large extent, the other party is really insecure, and it will be so obvious, at this time, we should pay attention to this problem, no matter what we do, we should have an explanation with the other party, we should always express our love for each other, and often be with each other, so that the sense of security will increase a lot.
1. Everything is explained
Many times the reason why two people quarrel is very simple, that is, they never explain to their object when they do things, or when the other party suspects them, they obviously don't do it, but they just admit it, because both people are very stubborn and don't want to admit the mistakes of either party. If you want the other party to have a sense of security, I think everything has an explanation, no matter what you do, you should explain to your object, if you do something, you must explain what may make the other party misunderstand, don't think that this is a small thing is unnecessary, but some people lack a sense of security, a small thing will become a big thing in the heart.
2. Spend more time with each other
Maybe it's because two people spend less time together that they will make each other have such worries, or their object is too good-looking, and there are always many suitors, which will also make the other party insecure, so I think at this time you should spend more time with your partner, if you are often with each other, the other party will not doubt yourself, or will not be afraid of being with others at all. Insecurity is a particularly bad feeling because of the constant fear that your object will leave you.
If your girlfriend is insecure, you can give her a sense of security, and your girlfriend doesn't like to communicate, so you can learn to communicate with her more. We women are not like men, there are many things that we don't like to take the initiative, as a man you can do this:
First of all, to make your girlfriend feel safe, you have to take action.
For women, the sense of security mainly comes from the house and the man's love, the house is dead, but the man's love is alive. When a man can do something for a woman and move her, he can make a woman die for him.
For example, men should remember women's birthdays, anniversaries when two people are together, etc., and when these special days come, men had better show that women understand that their men love them and that men can be relied on.
Second, communicate with your girlfriend regularly.
Communication between people is sometimes strange, even if you don't like to communicate anymore, after being with you for a long time, you communicate with your girlfriend regularly and express your feelings openly. If one person takes the initiative to communicate, the other person will also be imperceptibly influenced, and she will be influenced by you.
It's okay to ask your girlfriend to watch a movie, express your feelings after watching the movie, try to let your girlfriend also talk about her thoughts, the first time she doesn't say it, the second time she doesn't say it, the third time she ...... After a long time, she has put her heart on you, so she will have something to say to you.
Finally, men must be properly considerate.
In fact, most girls have a dream of becoming a princess themselves, and you are her prince. Reality is cruel, but dreams are very beautiful, when dreams meet cruel reality, we have to bury what we want, it does not mean that it does not exist. When a man's thoughtfulness makes us feel good enough to be a prince, a woman will feel secure and will enjoy communicating with you.
When our partner says that she is insecure, we must first reflect on whether what we are doing is wrong, so we can make her feel safe. The second is to try to do better and let her regain her sense of security.
