The ways to judge that a man wants to break up are: deliberately looking for something to quarrel with you, frequently telling you that we should calm down for a while, starting to deliberately avoid you, not contacting you, you quarrel with you, he is indifferent, and he is becoming more and more impatient with you, etc.
1. Deliberately looking for something to quarrel with you
When a man wants to break up with you, his heart is very irritable, so he will quarrel with you at the slightest little thing, and even hurt you with some unpleasant words. In addition, the man deliberately quarrels with you just to make you leave voluntarily or give him a reason to break up. At this time, he usually says things like "I think we're still not suitable" or "We have different views, forget it".
2. Frequently tell you that let's calm down for a while
In fact, when a man says this, he is basically announcing a breakup. It's just that he can't bear it, or doesn't know how to say the word "break up", so he says such things to you. Women, don't be stupid to think that it's good to just calm down for a while, men's calmness is to withdraw from your world, and then when the wind is calm, then casually say "cherish".
3. Start deliberately avoiding you and not contacting you
When two people are together, whether they are in a different place or locally, as long as they truly love each other, distance is not a problem. A man who really loves you will take the initiative to contact you and actively reply to your messages, so that you can find him in time when you need him. Only a man who wants to break up with you will do everything possible to avoid you, clearly seeing your message, but pretending not to see anything.
4. You make noise and you make trouble, but he doesn't care
When a woman is noisy, whether the man is distressed or annoyed, as long as he doesn't think about leaving you, he will say something. But if a man wants to leave you, he will become indifferent. Because, at this time, he will think in his heart: I will tolerate you for a few last days, anyway, I will leave you soon.
5. Becoming more and more impatient with you
When a boy is chasing you, he will be considerate and caring for you in every way, and in love, he will also take special care of you and meet your requirements. If a boy starts to get impatient with you, he looks bored when he sees you, he doesn't want to take the initiative to deal with you, he is also indifferent to you, and he is no longer enthusiastic about you. Then the girls should not be deeply involved in it, wondering if they have not done a good job.
When a man says to be calm, does he want to break up? If he has not been truly in love, he may break up; If he is truly in love, he needs time to adjust himself and will not break up.
This mainly depends on what you know about him, if you really love you, then your boyfriend says to calm down, it's not that your boyfriend wants to break up, but because your boyfriend has grown. Become very mature in thinking, knowing that you can't solve problems by arguing; That's why both parties will calm down, and then resolve the dispute between the two couples. However, if you can't feel his love for you in some small things in your daily life, then it may be that calming down means breaking up.
Additional Information:
1. Calm is to force the woman to break up
Even if you don't love it anymore and have another woman in your heart, you will only use other ways to force the woman to take the initiative to break up. For example, when you are tired of your relationship, you will say, "Calm down for a while." If you really give the other party time to calm down, thinking that sooner or later you will find out that you are good, then you are too stupid, the man said "calm down for a while", in fact, it means a breakup.
2. Calm down is not a breakup
Two people have been hot for a long time, and it's a good thing to be able to think about it calmly, and it's not a bad thing to try to live a life without each other and give each other a little time and space. Sometimes the cooling-off period between lovers can reach a few months, but if you are really destined to go through a lifetime, you don't have to worry about this period of time bringing the end of love. If the trials of this period of time cannot be withstanded, it means that it is impossible to come together.
If a man says he wants to be calm, is he going to break up? If you really love someone, then your lover is everything, and every day, you want to be with your lover; If you don't love someone, then if you are with each other, you will be upset, so you will find all kinds of excuses to stay away from each other; If a man really loves a woman, then a man will have a thousand reluctances and reluctance to leave a woman for a minute; But if a man doesn't love a woman, then the man doesn't want to stay with the woman, so he will find a reason to separate from the woman; So does a man say that a period of calm is a breakup?
First, it shows that men don't love you anymore
In a man's heart, if he truly loves a person, then a man will accompany a woman for a lifetime, and he will stay with a woman for a lifetime; As long as he leaves the woman for a minute, the man feels as if he has been separated for a lifetime; And a man does not love a woman, and in the man's heart, the woman is nothing; Maybe when a man and a woman first started together, the man did love the woman without knowing the woman; But when you understand women, know that women are unbearable, and know that women are in the past, men's hearts change from love to love.
As a woman, men say calm down for a while; It's safe to say that it's breaking up with you; Because a man really loves you, he can't wait to be with you every day, to be with you every day; But the man said to you to calm down for a while, which shows that the man already knows you very well, must know a lot of your unbearable, know a lot of your past; For example, how many exes have you ever had, and you have had an intimate relationship with your ex; So the man dislikes you, but he can't say it, so he just uses a period of calm to express that he doesn't love you.
Second, calming down for a while is an excuse to break up
Love doesn't need a reason, love is love, and not love is not love; If a man does not love a woman, then in the man's heart, he does not want to have anything to do with a woman, nor does he want to have intimate behavior with a woman; If a man does not love a woman, then the man will not cherish the woman and will not care about the woman; When a man doesn't love a woman, he has a million reasons to break up with a woman; Sometimes, although the word breakup has never been spoken, every word has already explained everything, and it already represents the soul that does not love in the heart.
As a woman, men say calm down for a while; It's safe to say that it's an excuse to break up with you; Because in a man's heart, he doesn't want to say too direct words to you, because he is afraid that you will be miserable, and you will be sad; That's why he used the words calm down for a while to make your heart feel better; But this is actually an excuse for him not to love you, a reason for him to break up with you; Because the person who has you in his heart and something uncomfortable in his heart, he will definitely say it in front of you, instead of trying his best to escape from your world.
Three, you don't have to wait, he won't come back
When love is gone, it will never come back; A man's love, love is love, not love is not love; A man loves a woman, and no one can stop him; If a man does not love a woman, no matter how much a woman gives, a man will not love a woman; After a man breaks up with a woman, he must have seen through everything about the woman and felt that the woman was not the ideal partner; That's why men will leave ruthlessly and stay away from women's worlds;
A man finds an excuse to stay away from the woman's world, and no matter how the woman waits, the man never returns.
As a woman, men say calm down for a while; This is the man who has definitely broken up with you, although this excuse is a little more tactful and gives you some hope, but in fact, there is no future for this; Because the man once loved you, you will be very miserable to break up directly,
He doesn't want to see it; And if he uses to calm down for a while, then in your heart, you will feel that he really wants to calm down for a while, and when he calms down, he will come back to you; Actually, he won't come back, you don't need to wait, because if he wants to turn back, there is nothing to calm down for a while, the problem between the two people, just turn around.
Does a man say that calming down for a while is a breakup?
First of all, it shows that a man no longer loves you, because a man who loves you cannot be willing to be separated from you for a period of time, even if it is a day, there will be a lot of reluctance; Secondly, the man said to calm down for a while, which is just an excuse to break up with you; Because he was afraid that you would be sad and sad, he made a tactful excuse; In the end, the man who doesn't love you, the man who is looking for an excuse to leave you, you don't need to wait, he won't come back; Because when he left you, he had already decided not to see you forever.
