You have seen people with high EQ. What are they like?
Case: In the work docking group, a small partner of the cooperative company sent a product quotation, and the colleague soon found the problem. He immediately sent a private letter to the little friend, telling him that there was a problem with the data in the table and asking him to withdraw it quickly. For this reason, the other party is grateful. After all, there is a boss in the group, and no one wants to make mistakes in their work, leaving a bad impression.
This colleague is very popular in the company. Everyone speaks highly of him in private, not only with strong ability, but also with high emotional intelligence. In fact, who doesn't want to be with a person who doesn't have bad intentions? In fact, a person's way of doing things often reveals not his EQ, but his character and personality. All the high EQ, behind is a kind, know how to take care of others, for others.
In today's era, the more developed the economy is, the more important EQ is. If one is willing to be a person with high EQ, it is not difficult in fact. First, one should choose kindness. I have met some very shrewd people and found that they were very considerate when they met something. If the situation is not conducive to them, they will speak in a harsh and acerbic way, as if one word is going to overwhelm the overall momentum.
Some people say that high EQ is a kind of hypocrisy, while others say that high EQ is a kind of treachery. In fact, this is a misunderstanding of high EQ. According to Baidu Search, high EQ is composed of five characteristics: self-awareness, emotion control, self motivation, cognition of other people's emotions, and handling relationships. When a kind person faces things that are not good for him or her, he or she will not immediately send his or her emotions to the other party, but will immediately stand on the other side and consider for others. Rather than satirizing the craftiness of such a person, it is better to say that such a person knows how to think in other's place and how to deal with things.
1、 The essence of high EQ is kindness
In recent years, "emotional intelligence" is a concept that has been mentioned many times and is highly valued by everyone. It is considered to be one of the necessary conditions for a good job. Which is more important, emotional intelligence or ability? In fact, they prefer working ability, but they do not deny the importance of EQ. In many cases, high EQ can really benefit us a lot. Therefore, many people hope to become a person with high EQ and improve EQ. So, how to improve emotional intelligence? In fact, the standard for judging a person's emotional intelligence is nothing more than to see whether he is comfortable. When someone speaks in an awkward way, he will hurt others as soon as he speaks, making others feel embarrassed and unhappy. We usually say that the human relationship quotient is too low to speak. When someone opens his mouth, it is like a spring breeze. When someone does something, it makes people feel warm. We usually say that this person has a high human intelligence quotient, who can be a man and speak. In the process of getting along, the more comfortable people are, the higher emotional intelligence is often judged.
2、 People with high EQ know how to step down
A really high EQ person will not blame others when things happen. As the saying goes: If people are not sages, they can make mistakes. Even in the case of excellent people, there will always be times when they make mistakes. It is not a wise choice to blame the other party and make the other party fail. To give the other party face is the grand person.
3、 People with high EQ know how to see through without telling
Some people say that high EQ means being able to speak, which is a skill that normal people can master, but there is an essential difference between being able to speak and being able to speak well. Illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth. If you speak carelessly, it is not only easy to hurt yourself, but also easy to hurt others. One story impressed me deeply: a friend who stuttered and spoke slowly. One day, they went out to play together. On the way, they met a man who came to ask for directions, but unexpectedly, the person who asked for directions also stuttered. In the process of asking for directions, stuttering friends are listening silently without saying a word. Everyone in the company felt very strange, and when the questioner left, the friends asked without understanding. The stuttering friend said, "People stutter too. If I speak, people will think I'm imitating him, which makes people feel unhappy." This sentence is impressive. Speaking well is a kind of ability, while timely silence is a kind of rare kindness. People with high EQ have the ability to penetrate people's minds, understand each other's emotions, and take into account each other's feelings. It is also a high EQ performance of putting oneself in the other's shoes.
In life, we will not encounter such things, but also encounter such things. If everyone thinks that it is someone else's fault without introspection when facing things without considering, then things must end badly. On the contrary, a person who knows how to deal with things satisfactorily through empathy is the win-win outcome we need.
When one chooses kindness, in fact, EQ becomes higher. Such people know how to respect human rights and human dignity of all people. When we are respected by others, we are happy and cherish each other more. This is the good effect of handling things with high EQ, and it is also the choice of a kind person.
