A proud woman deserves love.
A proud woman has her own goals and pursuits in life, can think independently, and does not rely on others, which makes her more attractive in life. A proud woman has confidence in herself and is not easily influenced by others, and firmness and self-confidence can give her partner strength and courage and become her partner's spiritual pillar. A proud woman is not afraid of difficulties and challenges, and bravely faces all kinds of difficulties in life.
In marriage, men often cherish women who live proudly?
Don't put down your lowly body for love
Whether it is marriage or love, it is like a balance to consider each other's emotions. Once the scales are skewed, the lower you are, the more indifferent the other party is about you. Xiao Lin and her husband have only been married for 2 years, but in the past few years, Xiao Lin has been living like a year, and her husband's indifference made him lose confidence in this marriage, but he didn't want to let go.
Kobayashi and her husband met in college, and when she saw the boy for the first time, she was deeply attracted to it. Under her painstaking pursuit of perfection, she and her husband finally achieved positive results. Whether it is their partner or marriage, as long as there is a conflict, it must be Xiaolin who makes a compromise, she lives a very humble life in this relationship, but she tries to persevere, hoping to exchange for her husband's love.
Unfortunately, everything was in vain, and the more she loved her, the less her husband cared about her. Therefore, a proud woman generally will not put down her lowly figure for love. In a marriage, the more committed the person is, the more hurt he will suffer.
In marriage, you can keep your own bottom line
Everything has a degree, and the same is true in marriage, a proud woman must be able to keep her bottom line. Excessively allowing the other party to step on their own bottom line, usually ends up losing big because of the small, just like Xiao Li. When Xiao Li saw the lipstick mark on the collar of her husband's shirt, he knew that her husband was cheating again, and she wanted to leave again and again, but she felt that this marriage had not yet reached the point of incorrigibility.
Because every time Xiao Li and her husband quarrel and don't allow him to cheat, her husband will kneel down and admit his mistake to her, and she will still be indecisive and tolerant. In the end, her repeated forgiveness and forgiveness led her into the endless abyss of pain and entanglement. In marriage, a woman must be able to keep her bottom line, otherwise it will always be the woman herself who will be sad in the end.
Irretrievable emotions need to be dashing and let go
In marriage, a proud woman, when facing feelings, usually a good person is not good to repay, and she can let go. In that way, even if he let go of an incorrigible marriage, he still kept his dignity and courage. Xiao Li, who was finally heartbroken by her husband's repeated affairs, decided to completely let go of this marriage that had long been hollowed out, and she decided to find herself.
She began to calculate the family's assets, and she began to know how to dress up with makeup, and her husband saw that his wife had stabilized her former good looks, and she also started a conspiracy against Xiao Li. Unfortunately, what caught him off guard was that Xiao Li took out a divorce agreement. When she took out her husband's affair information, he knelt down and begged for forgiveness as usual, but at this time, Xiao Li couldn't believe its false promise and turned away.
At the moment when she went out, she realized that she used to be able to take it and put it down, and her mood felt extremely relaxed. At the last moments of her marriage, she regained her self-esteem. A proud woman, for irretrievable emotions, will choose to let go chicly. In marriage, the most important thing for a woman is to defend her bottom line and self-esteem.
In life, I have to navigate all kinds of interpersonal relationships. In the face of power and interests, even if there are thousands of disagreements in your heart, you may only be able to compromise and seek perfection. But everyone has their own attitude towards the world, so never "stutter", a proud of the 3 types of people, which one do you belong to?
There are people in high positions who can be dismissive of anyone and everything. But after all, ordinary people account for the majority, some will choose to give up their dignity to practice themselves, and some will choose to flatter all kinds of sycophants. There are even some people who can't play the role of being at the mercy of others.
The first type of person: a natural kingly demeanor
Some people are born with pride, and they never underestimate themselves, no matter who they are dealing with. As for the excellence of the other party, they always have a sneering attitude.
This kind of person has super self-esteem, and sometimes even has thorns all over his body without knowing it. No matter how ordinary you are, you can still discover your shining points anytime and anywhere, without anyone's recognition.
They don't tend to be inflammatory, because they don't have to feel good about themselves. Even in the workplace, I always believe that I am better than the leader.
In fact, this attitude is not the principle they adhere to, but their unaware aura and mysterious sense of superiority. Of course, such people tend to be happy because they are always in a state of self-appreciation and do not have too much time to care about the relationships in the whole environment.
But strangely, most of these people are very popular, and even favored by company leaders, easily reaching the pinnacle of interpersonal relationships.
The second type of people: upright antiques
This kind of person is very principled, does not follow the monarch and ministers, does not follow the trend, let alone compromise. Of course, most of these people are people with both ability and political integrity, and they always insist on speaking by strength.
They are very assertive, and it is difficult for their ideas to be changed by the environment and people's words. Such people always reject those who sloppy and slap horses, and even more look down on the airborne troops who take shortcuts.
In the face of interests, they always rely on their own real materials to fight, and will not abandon their dignity to achieve an unreal sense of achievement. If given a choice, such a person would rather die standing than live on his knees.
The third type of person: the alternative with full personality
There is a kind of person who is called a strange and a strange person, whether in thought or behavior, he is a maverick and does his own thing. They don't care about worldly interests and power at all, they just like to immerse themselves in their own world.
They are active and imaginative, with countless ideas and ideas in their heads. This kind of person seems to be proud, but in fact it is relatively simple, only what he likes to do, and there is nothing he must do. And they firmly believe in their own choices, and they only listen politely to other people's suggestions, and it depends on their own true thoughts whether to do or not to do it.
As for the illusory things like sycophants, their attitude cannot be said to be disdainful, just depending on their mood, they will flatter them from the bottom of their hearts when they are happy, and they don't even bother to say hello when they are unhappy.
They only follow their own hearts, don't care what others think, and don't like to force themselves. They have their own pursuits and preferences, and most people can't understand what they really think in their hearts.
Everyone has principles and dignity, but not everyone knows how to protect them. Only by relying on one's own efforts and abilities can one realize one's own value, rather than relying on low-mindedness and flattery to meet one's own needs, which can only force oneself to be happy against one's will.
