When we do things, we often hesitate. If we always hesitate to do things, our success rate will be delayed, and sometimes we will offend others. But how can we change it? I hope the following 3 tips can help you.
1. Don't dwell on the last step, focus on the next step, think less about how the last step is so bad, and think more about how to solve the next step. No matter what happens, remember the six words "solve first and then summarize". Don't argue with others about the right or wrong. Solve the immediate problem first, and then review and summarize later. Don't say who was wrong before, but just say what to do next.
2. Don't worry about trifles. Ordinary people can't hold sand in their eyes, while real experts can hold stones in their eyes. The cleaner the soil, the less crops grow, and the cleaner the water, the less fish. Therefore, people do not need to pursue perfection in everything, but learn to hide evil and accept evil.
3. Focus only on what you can control. It is normal for all kinds of situations to occur in life, but many people tend to pay too much attention to those sudden situations, and then feel sad and sad. You like sunny days. If it's sunny today, you'll be happy. If it rains, you'll be unhappy. But you can't control the weather. Remember to focus on what you can control, and face the part you can't control calmly.
