A backbone woman will leave in a chic manner after a breakup, will not be stalked, and will make herself better.
In fact, a smarter woman will show her own backbone after a breakup, and her performance after a breakup will make people feel very backbone, which is also a kind of girl who can afford to let go. I remember that girls would leave in style after a breakup.
The backbone girl will not be stalked after breaking up, nor will he beg the other party's backbone girl to break it clean, he will soon be able to adjust his mood and restore himself to a good state.
A girl with real backbone will not let herself be sad, she will work hard to seek her own happiness and make herself better. A girl with backbone will only become more and more frustrated, and she will not collapse.
The mentality of a backbone woman after a breakup:
For a woman, if the breakup is very clean, it means that he has let go of the relationship, perhaps he has been greatly hurt in this relationship, and has no nostalgia for the relationship between two people or is disappointed in each other. So after the breakup, he won't want to get any news from the man, because he doesn't want the other party to know him anymore.
A girl who breaks up very clean after a breakup generally doesn't want to entangle this relationship anymore, just wants to have the next relationship, and he will work hard to pursue happiness. This kind of girl thinks more openly, she won't complain, she won't beg the other party, he will leave in style, because he thinks that even if they can't be together, then they have to leave each other completely.
Breaking up is the norm of falling in love, this is not good, then the next one is more obedient, for men who are not worth keeping, there is no need to put down their self-esteem to beg him not to leave, you must know that what you can't get for men is always in turmoil, instead of humbly staying by his side, it is better to be the woman who can't forget after the breakup, then let's see how the backbone woman will behave after breaking up.
1. Be a passing ex
A qualified ex is like dead, a woman with backbone after a breakup will try to reduce her sense of existence, and she will not mention her ex-boyfriend to others, let alone slander him, whether he is good or not, for a woman with backbone, the ex is already a passerby, and for her it is already a thing of the past, and there is no need to dwell on the past and become a very passing ex.
2. There will be no humble retention
A woman with backbone who redeems it once when she breaks up will not redeem it a second time. Although she is reluctant to let her ex and wants to keep him, a woman with backbone will never take all the fault on herself, nor will she humbly say "As long as you come back, I am willing to do anything" In this way, a woman with backbone has always been clear about right and wrong, it is your fault is your fault, it is her fault She will take the initiative to admit it, she will keep you, but she will not unconditionally and without any principles to keep you, once she feels that you are not a worthy person, she will leave simply and simply, there will be no nostalgia.
3. Won't pestering you too much
A backbone woman has always been a person who knows how to be decent and knows proportion, she will not do too much fearless entanglement with you because she wants to keep you, just like finding your door and begging for redemption, going to your company to find you back together, or through your friends or family to keep you, or calling and sending you messages over and over again, these ways to redeem are never what a backbone woman will be willing to do, and a backbone woman will know that not disturbing a man is the best way to recover, She herself knows sensibly that this entanglement is the most useless, the person who loves you will come back without you doing this, and the person who doesn't love you will not help even if you take out your heart.
4. Still live a wonderful and confident life
A woman with backbone will not live a decadent life because of the departure of a man, buy drunk late at night, on the contrary, she is still self-disciplined and strict to live her every day, the man's departure is like a small episode for her, as if the keychain that has been given to her has been lost, the keychain is worthless, and if she loses it, she still lives her life well, works hard to study, improves herself, and is not a woman who puts love at the center of her life.
A woman with backbone is a large number of people who also know how to be decent, she will not because of the failure of her relationship with you, and cut off all contact with you, nor will she leave angrily when she meets you on the road, after the breakup, you are just a very familiar stranger to her, in the face of you, she can still nod her head, a greeting, and talk to you as calm and calm as ever, as if your things have never happened.
What are the performances of backbone women after a breakup
1. Recognize reality
Breaking up is not a one-sided thing, both parties have reasons, and when he mentions breaking up, he takes his request to break up seriously. We should not look at problems one-sidedly, but grasp the overall situation and look at problems, which is more conducive to resolving fundamental contradictions. All you can do is calm yourself down, it's useless to cry and beg to stay, listen to him quietly, why did you come to the point of breaking up.
Don't think it's a simple question, when you break up, the other party says that you don't have a good personality, your parents don't agree, or you don't deserve you, etc. After a breakup, a woman with backbone will seriously think about whether these problems have existed for a long time, but they have been raised but not resolved, resulting in worsening relationship problems, rather than immersing themselves in what they think is the sweetness of love without knowing it.
2. Accept the breakup
After breaking up, you are always flustered and unwilling, unwilling to end, but afraid of the real end, you are at a loss like a headless fly, anxious to turn around, all kinds of methods that work are used, crying to keep the other party indifferent. Since the other party is determined to break up, the more you entangle him, the more he thinks you hate it, so it's better to accept the reality and break up rationally.
After the breakup, the backbone woman can afford to put it down, go home and hide in the room, find a comfortable pillow, cry happily, and release her sadness in time. There is still a long way to go, and there are still many realities on the road ahead that you don't want to accept but have to accept. A breakup is just a milestone in your growth.
