We all know that people in society have their own circles and their own small groups, especially women, who may have many circles. But there are also such women, that is, they are inherently unsociable, they may just like to do things alone, and they don't like to fit into a group. But have you noticed that it is often these unsociable girls who marry the best in the end, in fact, this statement is very accurate.
Maybe there are such girls around you who are not very gregarious, and when you see her life after getting married, you will definitely be surprised, you can't imagine that she will marry so well, how did she do it? In fact, people's unsociability is also very distinctive, it is because they are unsociable, and then because of these three reasons, they will marry better.
1. Don't be willing to be ordinary, don't want to waste time to be gregarious
Women know that if you want to be gregarious, you must be integrated into this small group, and you must participate in any group activities. Get together for a meal from time to time, do a manicure, and even start gossiping about others when you have time, etc., and the unsociable girls feel that this is a complete waste of time, if you have this time, it is better to memorize a few more words and learn more useful knowledge. And generally such groups are very ordinary, these unsocial girls just don't want to make themselves too ordinary, so they don't want to join such a group, and they don't want their rank to be lowered.
It is because of her unsociability, unwilling to be ordinary, that she has bought herself more time to enrich herself, and has also raised her own value, so there will be such a result.
2. She's not out of place, she's out of your group
It may seem to you that this woman is a little unsociable, and if you think so, you are wrong, because she is not unsociable, she is not in your group. Because she is not at the same level as you, she is higher than yours, and she will definitely not be able to integrate into your group. You don't know how mixed she is in a group of people of her level. Maybe she knows you don't think she's very gregarious, but she doesn't care what people think of her, because you can't imagine who she's in contact with. Xiao Hong has a friend who grew up with her since childhood, and in the end, the two of them took two completely different paths.
3. If a woman wants to be better, she must learn to be independent and say goodbye to mediocrity
Independence is a compulsory course for a woman, and an excellent woman must be relatively independent in all aspects, and she is certainly not as mediocre as you. Everyone knows that no strong woman will be surrounded by a group of people, in fact, it is their unsociable and independent character that is destined to become better. There is no man who doesn't like excellent women, so after making himself better, there will definitely be more choices, and there will definitely be no problem in marrying well. Maybe as a woman, you are more dependent, if you want a woman to become independent, it may be a little difficult, but when you continue to be independent. After constantly breaking away from those mediocre groups, you will continue to enjoy the superiority that this independence gives you, and you will fall in love with this feeling of independence and unsociability.
In fact, whether it is gregarious or not is not something that can be judged by others in a word, but also depends on one's own performance in society. There's no need to force yourself to be gregarious, to do something you don't want to do, and there's no need to feel like you're lonely just to make more friends. It is necessary to make some friends that are not suitable for you, to solve loneliness, there are many things that can be done, and making friends may be the worst way. Don't let yourself live a tiring life.
Unsociable girls tend to marry best? Why do girls who don't fit in often end up marrying the best? What is the root cause?
Although married life is very realistic, because he must be able to maintain it, and wherever there are fireworks, economic development must be supported, but married life is not all about money. Psychologically speaking, girls who marry well are all due to having a unique heart. Most people's psychological state wants to "go with the flow", what others are doing, even if it is wrong, this is also the fault of some people who accompany themselves, so such people cannot be excellent after all.
These people who know their state of mind are people who don't want to go with the flow, they have their own considerations in mind, and this kind of consideration is incomprehensible to people who go with the flow. Most women's thoughts are "find a rich man to marry", don't they know that the daughter-in-law of a rich family is not so easy to be, spend other people's money, then you have to have your own level, never sit back and enjoy it scientifically and reasonably, everything must be invested accordingly.
Very few women understand: I must be strong enough to marry a rich man, otherwise, I can be looked down upon by my mother-in-law, and any mother-in-law must let her children have a woman who can run the yard, not a device that can only spend money. Therefore, they will hone themselves frantically, first confirm to their mother-in-law's family that they are not a person who can survive, and they are better than ordinary people. Generally speaking, people who are not good at talking are not unable to talk, but they know when to speak, and when not to speak. They know who is very worthy of her confession, and they know even more about who needs to be kept silent.
Psychologically, knowing how to advance and retreat, knowing how to observe and inspect is the smartest way to behave in the world, looking at these girls who are usually inappropriate in language, but in the end they marry very beautiful girls, in fact, it is not that they are unwilling to speak, but they are not willing to go with the flow, and they are as ordinary as the people around them.
