How to be a smart woman to capture a man's heart, on the premise of getting along with her heart, there are some small skills that are indispensable~Let's summarize it~
1. Make only one phone call a day
When a woman makes a phone call to a man at most once a day, the man will feel that you don't love him so much, miss him, and let him not relax his love for you. When he misses you, he'll call himself. Women must learn to be reserved in love. Don't give a man the feeling that you love him very much and can't do without him.
2. Don't force marriage
Many women get married for the purpose of falling in love, but not all men are. Therefore, when you meet this man, do not force marriage.
As the saying goes, there is no happiness in reluctantly, and behind the reluctance to succeed is that you are forcing yourself to be with a man who doesn't love and doesn't want to marry you.
In addition, don't want to have a child to tie him up and let him marry him, which is not conducive to your married life. It can be said that the woman who does this is very irrational and stupid, and what you want is not that he is responsible for you, but for the child.
3. Don't shed too many tears for love
Falling out of love is painful, and the pain makes you cry. But it's good to really cry once, and after crying, tell yourself not to cry for any man again. The man who will make a woman cry is not worthy of love, and a woman should not make herself miserable for a man who does not love her, and decisively face the various choices that arise in love.
4. Let each other have their own private space
Even after falling in love, everyone has their own family and friends, and the world has family and friendship in addition to love, and smart women will let each other have their own private time, so that they can add a lot of topics to chat with each other, which is more conducive to the growth of feelings.
How to be a smart woman to capture a man's heart
First, the girl wants to capture the indulgence move
1. Don't want a man to want it, you just give it to a man
In a man's heart, this is the most precious thing that is not easy to get. If you give yourself to a man because he wants it, then the man will only despise you. When a man gets you, he doesn't have to make any effort, so a man will do the same when he dumps you. Women need to know how to deal with men.
2. Occasional small emotions, don't go too well with men's thoughts
Even if you love men very much, don't show that you have no temper in men. If you have no temper in front of a man, then the man will only get worse. So in front of men, you should also occasionally have your own little emotions to let men know your importance. Let men know that you don't have nothing but men.
3. Let men pay and change initiative into balance
One of the most stupid things that women are most likely to make is to take the initiative in their relationships. Although your initiative will be an expression of your love for a man, your initiative may not necessarily be exchanged for the same initiative as a man. And only by balancing feelings, letting men take the initiative with you, and letting you take the initiative with each other, can men pay more attention to feelings. Without balanced feelings, it is destined to be weightless.
Second, the trick of indulging in the boyfriend's desire to catch him
1. Don't say too much about yourself
One of the characteristics of mysterious women is that they basically belong to the role of listeners, and do not always talk about their own affairs.
For women who talk about their own affairs all the time, men will feel like "I already know her well, it's okay not to listen to her" and start to get bored. On the contrary, women who don't often discuss their own affairs have a feeling that men want to know about it, and then gradually become interested in this woman. The more you keep silent or just pass by, the more it will arouse his curiosity and infinite reverie about you. So don't say too much about yourself, always just say 70%, that's the first point to keep the mystery alive.
2. Make the other party sad moderately
Do you often ask if a guy loves you? It's okay to ask once, but asking too much, it will make the man feel disgusted, rather than you take the initiative to go to the other party, it is better to let the other party take the initiative to tell you, of course, there are also some methods to be used, for example, moderately make the other party feel the crisis, moderately make the other party sad. If your answer is "I'll try, but not guaranteed!" Perhaps the other party 2 will be a little sad at first glance, but an honest attitude will encourage the emotional development of a more rational path and avoid unnecessary quarrels.
3. Be calm when you meet for the first time
First impressions matter, but most men mess up the first meeting with a woman. You must not appear nervous when you meet, so that your impression in her mind will be greatly reduced, and you must behave naturally and generously, looking like an old rabbit in love. As long as you can control yourself and treat all women with a normal heart, you will immediately become a powerful magnet for women.
Third, women want to capture and indulge in small skills
1. Learn to keep yourself and not overpay
Giving is not proportional to what you give in return, and women can't always think that the better you are with a man, the more responsible a man will be for you. A man who truly loves you will always care about all your feelings. Men don't love you, and women just blindly stick upside down, which will only make their dignity more and more insignificant, and the other party looks down on you more and more. If a woman blindly gives and does not respond, she will only increase her humility. If a woman is smart, she should learn to be self-reserved and not give it all in.
2. Don't be overly dependent on men
Women should be independent and not overly dependent on men, otherwise one day he breaks up with you, and you will feel pain. Too dependent on men's women, men will think you're no longer interesting, no longer attractive, just an annoying little woman. Women should have their own circle of friends, have their own lives, and cannot rely on men for everything. Eat, bathe, sleep, and live a decent life without a man, at this time, men will feel that independent women are feminine and will be with you with all their hearts.
3. Be reserved and not too casual
Women still have to be reserved and keep their duties at all times, and women who are too casual are either played with by men or dumped by them. Women should be passive, women who are too active will not be cherished by men, they will only think that you are being amorous. When two people are together, they should consult with each other, and one party cannot decide everything, and this kind of relationship will make the other party feel particularly tired. Women are too casual, men may not appreciate it, why should women be amorous.
When falling in love, girls should master some small skills, so that they can better grasp their boyfriends. In love, girls can't be too active, and they can't be completely inactive, and maintain a passive position. Sometimes we can't be too proactive, we can use the desire to indulge in love skills, it seems that letting go is actually preparing, and using some tips in love can promote the development of relationships!
How to make a smart woman capture a man's heart, refer to the following 7 points:
1. Never say I love you too much
When you continue to please the other party in various ways every day, and constantly make the other party feel how much you love him, he will easily become paralyzed, and he will think that you are his person, or think that you are an "unpopular goods" that no one chases, and he will not know to cherish you. As the famous saying goes: "A girl should never let a man know that she loves him, he will be arrogant because of it" Even if you love him very much, you must keep it for a while, keep a little love for yourself, don't give it all, because no one can be responsible for whom to the end, so that leaving some distance between each other is more conducive to the development of the relationship.
Besides, if you become colder, it will make the other party anxious, and the other party will in turn continue to get close to you, please you, revolve around you, and when the time is ripe, he will be overjoyed to tell him that you love him.
2. Keep a normal heart
Men have their own things to do, women have to have their own things to deal with, and when men and women can't get together, don't be depressed or cry on the phone for men to keep you company. is too inseparable, but it makes each other lose the freedom they should have, have no personal space, and their emotional life becomes monotonous and prone to problems. Gather or disperse, women's emotions should not become too fast, and learning to face them gracefully will increase the charm of attracting men.
3. Don't accommodate him too much
Women should remember that others can only love themselves if they love themselves. If you don't even love yourself, how can you ask others to love you? Things can be tolerated, but tolerance is limited, when the other party puts forward some unreasonable requirements, don't make him happy, don't choose to compromise in order for him to be satisfied.
4. Have your own social circle
Sanmao once said: "My heart has a lot of rooms, and Jose has only been sitting recently." Have your own social circle, don't fall in love and evaporate in place and cut off all your friends, which will only make your life narrower and narrower.
5. Don't criticize his work
The so-called hitting people does not slap their faces, exposing people's shortcomings is originally a villain's behavior, even if it is a close lover, don't easily step into the forbidden area. As a smart woman, you should know that silence is golden, and rare confusion is always the highest state in life.
In short, if you want a man to show his true self in front of you and be able to make a man like you with all his heart, you have to learn to save face for men and not touch men's weaknesses.
6. Change yourself often
For example, sometimes he behaves very generously in front of him, and sometimes he behaves very stingy; Sometimes they smile at him, sometimes they sneer at him; Sometimes it seems lively, sometimes it behaves seriously; Sometimes he pretends to be stupid, and sometimes he acts sharp. The constant change in front of him made him unpredictable, which was the most mysterious thing for men.
7. Have the courage to say "no"
The core charm of the "three noes" woman to men lies in the three "no" words, which are hidden, erratic, and unpredictable.
Don't listen to him, don't treat him as a confidant, don't let him see through you for a while, learn to indulge in what you want, want to talk and rest, want to refuse and welcome, and always maintain a state of self-reliance and pride, you can rely on him emotionally, but you must never rely on him purely in terms of energy in things.
Although it is not easy to do the above steps, it is not easy to manage love. We must believe in ourselves, adjust our mentality, and constantly improve ourselves, so that we can make the emotional road smoother.
