What to do when a man doesn't want to pay attention to you, a woman must not love too humbly in a love, otherwise your dignity should be trampled on by this man. Love pays attention to liking each other, only wishful thinking will not last long, and no matter how sincere you pay, it will not necessarily have a good result. Next, I will share with you what to do when a man doesn't want to pay attention to you.
1. Don't take the initiative to contact him
If the person you love doesn't have you in his heart, even if you are good to him, he won't be moved. In a relationship, it is easy for a woman to give her heart, humbly love each other, and sometimes even lose her dignity for love, such a love, there is really nothing worth remembering. If the man ignores you, then the woman should not rush to find the man, that will only make the man feel that you are annoying, you should not take the initiative to contact him, so that you can retain a little last dignity in this relationship.
2. Make yourself good
When the man you love doesn't want to pay attention to you, then the woman should not be too sad about such a thing, and don't be wronged in this relationship, because the man who does this does not love you at all. At this time, women should live well, work hard, and make themselves excellent. When a man turns his head and sees that you are doing well, he will come back to you unhappily, he thinks that she will have a bad life without you, but you are really doing well without him. Don't waste feelings and time on someone who doesn't value you.
3. Make yourself more beautiful
A good-looking person can always attract the attention of others, if your boyfriend chooses to break up with you because you are not good-looking, or does not know how to dress up, and he will ignore you when you go to him, then women should not be entangled in him. At this time, you should take a look at your appearance, lose weight if you are fat, learn to put on makeup if your facial features are not very good-looking, and put more effort into yourself. When you become pretty, the next time you meet him, he will only marvel at your changes and even come back to you.
In love, if the other party knows that you love him very much, but he wastes your love for him, a woman should not waste her youth and sincerity on him. Mutual respect between people is the most basic courtesy, and even more so in love, if you can't even do this, then this love doesn't matter. If your love makes you lose your dignity and makes you humble in love, then it is time for you to stay away from the person you love.
What to do when a man doesn't want to pay attention to you
1. Don't dwell on him.
When he is cold and violent to you, then you also learn to dress coldly, don't write a small essay that moves you, go to him over and over again, learn to face cold violence with calmness, and take the initiative in your own hands. If you compromise, feel bad, cry and make trouble, pester him to find him, beg him to stay, you expose your needs and let him know that you can't do without him, this is the most useless practice, and it will also make the man feel that this method is useful, and he will treat you in the same way next time.
So the best way is not to stalk him, humble and keep, since he wants to go, let him go. Turn grief into strength, put work and self-improvement first, fill your life and throw him out of your life. At this time, the man will suddenly realize that something seems to be wrong, find that you have not contacted him for a long time, and even miss the old days. A man is born with a desire to conquer, and when he becomes interested in you again, the initiative is in your hands.
2. Don't communicate ineffectively.
Communication is an important factor in maintaining an intimate relationship, effective communication can help two people solve the conflict, while ineffective communication will only make the problem more serious, and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship. Ineffective communication is to communicate with the other party with an accusatory and commanding tone, which will only escalate the conflict, make him resist you, and even less want to pay attention to you.
Effective communication is to show weakness appropriately, express one's inner feelings, and create a comfortable communication atmosphere, so as to achieve the purpose of solving problems. For example, if a man ignores you, you desperately look for him and ask him, "Why don't you reply to my messages?" Is there someone out there? I've lost my freshness!" This will only escalate the conflict and make the man more resistant to you and refuse to communicate with you.
Effective communication should go something like this: "Honey, I don't know why you ignored me for so long, I'm sad, I've been wondering if I've done something wrong to let you ignore me, I've been thinking about it, I'm afraid of losing you. This kind of weak communication method will make men willing to communicate with you, and it will also make men secretly reflect in their hearts whether they have gone too far.
Give yourself two big mouths, one-sided love, and never come to fruition.
Love is the mutual attraction of two people, it is the proximity of hearts to each other, unilateral liking, it is not called love at all. What can you say about your confession? It just shows that you really like it.
Since the other party has rejected you, you are still chatting with the other party in the way of a friend, I really admire your courage. But now that the other party doesn't care about you, I think that's a good way for both parties.
Whether the other party has a partner, or because they don't want to delay each other, this is a better choice. You don't have to think too much about it, just treat yourself as if you're out of love.
The shattering of a beautiful dream will always be sad. Rather than being constantly hurt in the rest of your life, it is better to cut it in two.
If you still want to, go outside and buy a bottle of ice water, pour it on your head, and sober yourself up. It's impossible in itself, so what's the point of blindly pushing yourself?
Please let go of yourself when it's time to let go, you're not loving someone now, it's just your own obsession. The last time you were rejected, you already understood the reality. Ask yourself, do you really like it now?
I don't think so, you're just unwilling. I am unwilling to be rejected so easily, and I am unwilling to lose the other party like this, although I have never gotten it.
But you have to recognize the reality after all, whether you are willing or unwilling, it is meaningless to him. You can lust for your life in the future, but it's just your business.
My advice is to give up this relationship, since the other party has ignored you, then you should not take care of the other party anymore. Let this relationship that never started turn to ashes in the depths of your heart. Love is never a one-sided effort, and a person's love will never blossom and bear fruit.
