If a girl doesn't have a friend, this is a very normal thing, the main reason is that in fact, we don't have any special good friends at all, especially in our current society, there are many friends who are friends in wine, and you can't find them at all if you really encounter something.
So it's normal for this girl to have no friends, which can show that this girl has seen this society, so she is a more shrewd person, and the friends she makes are her most sincere friends, so you don't have to have too many good friends, just one is enough.
Is it normal for a girl to not even have a friend? It is normal that everyone's personality is different, some people have more friends of the opposite sex, and some people have friends of the opposite sex who depend less on their personal personality.
1. Devote yourself to the cause, have partners, but may not have friends, distinguish between public and private, and do not recognize the six relatives.
They don't make friends at all, they only talk about interests, there are no permanent friends only permanent interests, he may not have friends around him, but he doesn't regard them as friends, he clearly knows that friends are unreliable, or the most reliable cooperation of interests. Making friends, tired by friendships, can't focus on careers. For example, some workaholics, some artists, some technologists, they focus on their careers and don't make friends.
2. It may be that the personality is too eccentric.
People with too eccentric personalities can't communicate with anyone, and it's unbearable. In the eyes of others, it seems to be a monster, as if it is an alien, as if it is a strange thing. Or too selfish, self-centered. Never put others in your eyes, friends and you will get more or less hurt and indifferent, so after a long time, friends will naturally be lost. It may also be that the temper is too strong and too violent, and they quarrel and quarrel when they disagree, and they don't know how to be flexible. A straight personality is a good thing, but it is necessary to respect others and respect their different opinions and feelings. If you are too contentious, your words are too choking, and it is reasonable to lose friends.
3. There are friends but others can't see them.
There is a group of people who have no major problems in themselves, but they just don't like to make friends generally, at most they have two or three confidants, and they don't get together often. Then others don't see it and think that he doesn't have any friends, and it's almost none anyway. Mainly online contact, normal people, a little bit of a problem, a little advantage or something, there will always be a few friends. Whether it's a respected person or something else, there will always be a few friends by your side.
Friends are what everyone wants to have, as the saying goes: "It's hard to find a friend, and it's easy to walk when you have more friends..... but in real life, it's not easy to make real friends. Especially between girls, it is not easy to make a true friend who accepts each other sincerely, that is, the so-called real friend, so for many people, especially girls, the so-called "no friends" is a normal phenomenon.
Girls who don't have friends can't talk about good or bad, that is to say, you can't conclude that you have a problem just because a girl has no friends, which is inaccurate, and you have to consider other factors comprehensively. If it is the kind of autistic girl, that is, without any friends, psychological closure or even hatred of society, then it is abnormal. Therefore, it is still necessary to discuss the matter according to the person and the matter.
Friends are precious
Friendship between people, which binds the hearts of many people, is tender and sweet because of this precious connection. Friends are like alcohol, strong and easy to get drunk; Friends are like flowers. Fragrant and elegant; Friends are autumn rains, delicate and poetic; My friend is May in December, pure and proud.
Friends are not books, they are more gorgeous than books; Friends are not songs, they are more beautiful than songs; Friends should be poetry - there is the elegance of poetry; Friends should be dreams – there is the beauty of dreams; Friends should be the meaningful prose, written yesterday and looking forward to the future. Therefore, we should cherish and treat our friends well, because friends are precious treasures that are difficult to measure in terms of material things.
