Under what circumstances should a husband and wife divorce? In reality, there are actually many unhappy marriages, and the woman is struggling to insist, maybe for the sake of the children, or she may want to protect the self-righteous love, but we must see clearly the real problems in our marriage, and we must not hesitate to divorce when encountered, so under what circumstances should the husband and wife divorce?
1. Extramarital affairs
For people with emotional cleanliness, it is unacceptable for many people to cheat on either spouse, or for both to cheat.
Extramarital affairs here are not only physical, but also spiritual. If a person can't even be loyal to marriage, then there is no need to live, and some people like to mess with flowers everywhere, show mercy everywhere, and engage in extramarital affairs and extramarital affairs everywhere. Some are spiritual, some are physical, no matter which one it is, they can't bear it, because this is the bottom line.
A person who plays extramarital affairs, there is a first time, there must be a second time, even if you forgive him, the dog can't change his nature of eating [], and will continue to give you extramarital affairs, wearing a red hat or a green hat. So, once there is a first time, sorry, divorce it.
2. Domestic violence
Domestic violence is also the bottom line of maintaining marriage and a taboo in married life. There is not a single domestic violence, only an infinite number of times. When your former gentle couple raises their hands to hit you, the love between your husband and wife is gone.
A person with violent tendencies and history shows that he likes to solve problems by violent means in his bones, the first time he beats you, he will beat you a second or third time, and if you want to continue to be beaten, you can not leave. But if a principled woman or man, once beaten, it is an immediate divorce, there is nothing to negotiate.
In addition, in addition to physical violence, some also use mental cold violence, and husbands and wives do not speak and cold war all year round. Back at home, just like an ice cellar, this kind of marriage, in fact, is more unacceptable than domestic violence, and mental cold violence is more likely to hurt others than physical domestic violence, so if you encounter such a situation, you must also divorce.
3. Often quarrel, abuse, and abuse parents and children
Some couples, as soon as they quarrel, take out their anger at their children and parents, insult their parents and children, abuse them, and even beat their parents and children.
4. Incompatible personalities
Some young people are carried away by hormones when they are in love, and they get married in a hurry because they don't know enough at first, but during the marriage, they find that the personalities of the two people are seriously incompatible, there is no common language, and even the world view, values, consumption view, etc. are seriously not on the same channel, and they can't communicate. Even at the slightest disagreement, they start to quarrel or even fight. In the long run, it will inevitably lead to divorce.
There are also couples, because of too much cultural differences, since childhood living environments and circles, which make it difficult to integrate into each other's psychology, there are communication barriers, or in other words, they are not at the same level, resulting in no common language, and they live a very painful life. This type of marriage can be divorced.
5. Bad habits and fatal defects in character
Such as pornography, gambling, drugs, robbery, stealing, harming others, etc. There are many such people, even if they get married, they will do things that violate the law and discipline.
Some people have defective character and steal, rob, or even hurt others, and if they meet such people, they can get divorced. There are also people who eat, drink, prostitute and gamble, resulting in the loss of their family, etc., and they must also divorce.
6. Long-term bed separation
Sleeping in separate beds, I don't want to see each other, and I don't want each other to touch my body'. Most of these people are concentrated in their forties and fifties who are older, and they have planned to leave before, but the children are still young, and they are worried that the divorce will affect the children's studies, and once the children are admitted to college, they will divorce decisively.
7. Sentenced to more than 10 years in prison for various crimes
Many people have been sentenced to more than 10 years in prison or life imprisonment for various crimes, at this time, there is no need for marriage to exist, and you can't wait for him for another 20 years or a lifetime. Once convicted, it will also mean that the wife is separated, the wife is someone else's, and the doll may also be someone else's.
Again, marriage is not easy, do it and cherish it! It's not easy for two people to come together, and if you can, don't divorce easily.
1. Husband and wife must divorce in five situations
There are five situations in which a husband and wife must be divorced by the court:
1. Bigamy or cohabitation with others;
2. Domestic violence;
3. Gambling or drug abuse is repeatedly taught
4. Emotional discord and separation for two years (not two years of separation);
5. Other situations where the relationship between husband and wife breaks down.
6. Legal basis:
Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 1079:[Divorce by Litigation]Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.
People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.
In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:
(1) bigamy or cohabitation with others;
(2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;
(3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught;
(4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord;
(5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.
Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.
Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.
2. Under what circumstances the man can sue for divorce?
The law does not stipulate the circumstances under which a man may sue for divorce, but only that a man may not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy. This is a restriction on the man's right to sue for divorce, but there is also a tendency to make exceptions, if the woman's pregnancy is caused by adultery with another person after marriage, or if the woman's health has recovered after a miscarriage, the man can also file a divorce lawsuit.
There are many couples who have divorced after getting married, because the relationship is not particularly good, so they have to divorce when they encounter a little thing, and the editor feels that divorce is very hurtful to feelings, so don't file for divorce at will. If we feel that a marriage is particularly tiring, then there is no need to maintain such a marriage, and frequent divorce will make people feel very tired.
What to do in the event of a quarrel
After getting married, some men may not pay special attention to their wives, and they also feel that because of the marriage certificate.
Even if you don't pay attention to your wife, there is no way, but in this way, it will only make the relationship between the two people worse and worse.
And the editor also suggests that after a quarrel, you can first think about who is right and who is wrong. If it is the wife's mistake, you can coax the wife first, and when the wife's mood has stabilized, then tell the wife about the mistake. Feelings are like this, if the attitude of two people is very tough, it will only make the marriage unsustainable, and having a child will also be very harmful to the child.
What should I do if I often mention divorce
Like many girls will often file for divorce as soon as they quarrel after marriage, but they don't know that such behavior will only make the other party farther and farther away from you. When there is no quarrel, you can quarrel with the other party, or you can go back to your parents' house, but what you can't mention is the word divorce. We must know that divorce is very hurtful, and it will also make the other party feel that divorce is due to a trivial matter, and there is no need to persist in such a marriage. Maybe when we first talk about divorce, the other party will think that it is a very serious matter and will coax you, but if a little thing happens, we often talk about divorce, and the other party will not take you to heart.
And the editor also hates such people, if the editor is in the marriage, the other party often says divorce, the editor also feels that there is no need to insist on such a marriage.
How to maintain a marriage
After two people get married, it is a legally recognized husband and wife relationship, and everyone should cherish it, after all, before two people get the certificate, they have experienced a lot of pain and a lot of hardships. There are many more things to go through in this life, so the couple should spend it hand in hand.
