What happens if you never attend a dinner party? Of course, it is not appropriate, on the one hand, the unit dinner is not only a matter of eating and drinking, but also a good opportunity and occasion to enhance mutual understanding between colleagues, promote harmonious relations between colleagues, and resolve conflicts between colleagues, because such occasions are easier to open up and speak to each other in the case of eating and drinking happily. In addition, there is tension between the two sides, which affects the effective development of the work. In fact, sometimes the contradictions between each other are easy to resolve, but there is a lack of a suitable occasion and opportunity, and the dinner party just provides such an opportunity and occasion.
Second, often absent from dinners or not attending every time, this will make people feel that you are not social, have no sense of collective honor, and give people a sense of self-esteem. Therefore, your popularity in the unit will be bad, once your popularity is not good, you will be excluded by your colleagues, and the leader will not like it! It's not good for your career!
Is it appropriate not to go to the unit dinner?
It is not appropriate not to go to the dinner party in the unit. The unit dinner is a collective activity of the unit, and it is also a commendation for the hard work of the employees of the unit leaders for a year, and it is also a good time for everyone to get together.
One of the most indispensable parts of going out to work is the departmental dinner, but the departmental dinner is also a link that many people avoid. Although the department dinner is famous, it is said to be a link to bring colleagues closer together, and the whole department relaxes together. However, departmental dinners are generally outside of work, which not only wastes their rest time. And the departmental dinner is not relaxed at all, but will make people more nervous. So many people don't want to go to a departmental dinner when they hear it, and what happens if they never participate in a unit dinner? This is to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.
1. If the department has frequent dinners, you can not go
If you are in a department that has regular dinners, or often has dinners and team-building activities. Then it's okay not to go once or twice.
Because the department often has dinners, you will spend a lot of energy and time on it. Occasionally, if you feel particularly tired, you can also refuse once or twice, everyone will have their own private affairs. Therefore, if your department often gathers for dinner, it is okay if you don't go once in a while, but be careful not to ask for leave too often, and it is best not to ask for leave continuously.
Second, if the number of departmental dinners is not much, you must go
If your department doesn't have a lot of dinners and it takes a long time to have a department dinner, then if you don't have something very important, then it is recommended that you go. Because although the department dinner will be very tiring, although it is not as simple as we seem on the surface.
But I have to admit that the departmental dinner has a certain effect of narrowing the distance. If you don't go to the department dinner, your leaders and colleagues will not be impressed with you.
3. Not attending departmental dinners will not affect future promotions
Although departmental dinners will affect your relationship with your leaders and colleagues, the most important thing for future promotion depends on your work ability. If you don't have the ability to work, no matter how good your relationship with the leader is, the leader can't cover the sky with one hand.
As long as you work hard and can be reasonable, not going to dinner will not affect your future promotion.
Not attending a company colleague dinner can lead to some social stress and missed opportunities to build relationships.
Colleagues build relationships that are not only working but also social. Therefore, not attending a company colleague dinner may affect your relationship and relationship with your colleagues.
Additionally, if you regularly don't attend company co-worker dinners, you may be considered unsociable, self-protective, and self-isolated. This may affect your career development in the company, as interpersonal and social skills are also very important factors in the workplace.
While you don't have to attend every dinner party, attending a company colleague dinner can help you build good relationships with your colleagues. If you really can't find the time or the reason doesn't allow it, it is recommended that you let your colleagues know in advance and explain the reasons so as not to affect your interpersonal relationships.
