Why get married? Marriage is a psychological need: marriage is also a psychological need, that is, the psychological need to find a partner, commonly known as a "soul mate". Soul mates are each other's spiritual trust and understanding, and they are each other's psychological soulmates.
First of all, it is human nature to desire to combine with the opposite sex, and marriage undertakes the mission of life extension.
Marriage, legally known as the establishment of marriage. It refers to the civil juristic act of both spouses to establish the relationship between spouses in accordance with the conditions and procedures prescribed by law, and to bear the rights, obligations and other liabilities arising therefrom.
1. Why do people get married?
1. Marriage is for stability
People get married for stability, generally speaking, with a family, what we have to consider is not a single person, but a family matter, at first it is each other, and then there are parents and children, so although there will be a lot of trivial things in marriage, there will also be an extremely strong sense of stability.
2. Marriage is for feelings
People are social animals, we need emotional comfort and communication, so marriage can bring us long-term stable emotional output and input, there is a person in this world who will always be on your side, so marriage is also to meet our needs for emotional communication with each other.
3. Marriage for childbearing
The most primitive purpose of human marriage is to reproduce, although people are now paying more and more attention to emotional needs, but it is undeniable that childbirth is still a very important thing in marriage, so marriage can also be to give birth to offspring, to provide children with a complete and beautiful family environment.
2. What are the benefits of getting married
1. Sharing the economy with each other
Two people getting married can share and support each other financially, so that the quality of life of two people can be improved, which is mutual communication and support at the economic level.
2. Rely on each other emotionally
In addition to supporting each other financially, marriage can also get mutual emotional support, no matter how many ups and downs you encounter outside, the person waiting for you at home is your most stable support.
3. Take care of each other in life
Two people can take care of each other, although adults can take care of themselves, but when we are sick and tired, we will still feel vulnerable and powerless, and then the care and companionship of another person is extra important.
Why get married? Throughout the ages, people got married mainly for the purpose of passing on the ancestry, but now with the progress of science and technology and the development of society, even if men and women do not need to marry, they can have children, and marriage may be for a deeper meaning.
First, succession. This has been around since ancient times, and people are mostly united by blood relations. And when a tribe or a group has a large population, it can get more places and more food, and that is life. Then, in order to avoid hierarchical confusion, then set a system and get married. The idea that the prosperity of offspring means the prosperity of a group has continued to this day. But now, with the rapid development of society, marriage is not necessarily for the purpose of having children. However, this concept still exists in many regions.
However, the family with children will be more cohesive, the husband and wife have a common crystallization, and the bond will be deeper, which is also conducive to the stability of the family to a certain extent, and the family will be stable, and the society will be more stable. In a deeper sense, marriage is also a means to maintain social ethics and morality.
Second, please your parents. A large percentage of people get married because of this. When parents are old, what they want most is that their children can have a happy family. Parents should be their own important people, and they have always cared about themselves since they were children, so sometimes they choose to get married in order to satisfy their parents' thoughts. This has a deep meaning for people who value their parents very much, because when their parents are satisfied, they will also be satisfied.
Third, accompaniment. That's probably the most important thing. The years are merciless, parents can't always be with you, and so are friends, no matter how deep the friendship is, sometimes your relationship will fall apart because of a small thing, an inadvertent behavior. So, you need a true love to spend the rest of your life with.
On the other hand, people tend to be lonely and hate loneliness. Most people still like group activities, but no matter how crazy you play outside and how happy you are, if you go home and don't have anyone busy for you, it's also very painful to be alone in the big house. Moreover, in such a fast-paced modern life, it is always easy to become lonely.
I think what most people yearn for is a house and the people who are waiting for them in the house. When you are free, you can walk around the street hand in hand or simply stay in the house and cook food together, which can be regarded as a very happy life. When I get old, I will go to the park slowly, watch the sunset together, and go grocery shopping to see my grandchildren together. As long as they are together, they will feel full of happiness, especially when they are old, they are easy to be ignored, and if they don't have too much energy to entertain themselves, they need a companion even more at this time.
Marriage, is a verb and can also be a noun. It can be either a perfect process or just a result. No matter which one it is, marriage is always closely related to love, we need love to nourish ourselves, and we can let love blossom and bear fruit, so that love can develop at a deeper level. In my opinion, marriage is not only about passing on the family to the next generation, but also about having the company of love, so that we can go further and happier.
