How long does it take to forget someone? How long it takes to forget a person depends on the weight of that person in your heart, and whether this person still has a certain influence on you.
In behavioral psychology, there is a saying that "21 days to change a Xi habit", and people have found that it takes 21 days to change a Xi habit, and a stable Xi habit will be formed during the 90-day repetition period. Repeating the same action for 21 days will become Xi habitual actions, and behavior will react on consciousness, and some psychologists have found that people's thoughts will become Xi thoughts within these 21 days.
Psychologists believe that when an individual's brain wants to forget a person, it will keep repeating people and things related to him, and the more you remind yourself to forget, it is equivalent to reprocessing memory in the brain. On the contrary, not only will you not forget him, but you will remember him more firmly, and you can't help but relive the past scenes again and again.
Ways to quickly forget about a person:
1. Delete the contact information about him or her, such as mobile phone number, QQ number, WeChat number, etc., as long as you don't contact him, then you will slowly forget it.
2. The law of diverting attention is that you need a new thing to make up for the damage you have suffered, such as things that you are interested in, anyway, I think work is the best healing medicine, only busy work can make you live a more fulfilling life, so that you will not be empty, and it will also make you forget that relationship and that person faster.
3. Change yourself to a new environment, such as moving out of the place where you used to live together, or leaving the company you used to work together, avoid touching the scene, and let yourself have a new start.
Forget how long it takes a person, a month, two months, a year, two years, seven years, or a lifetime.
It is said that it takes seven years to forget the person you love, and after seven years, you will meet someone you love again before you can forget the person you love. After separation, you say forget me. I said how can I forget, how can I forget the person I have loved, I have not loved you if I can forget, you can easily forget and let go, but I can't; I'm not you, not as easy as you.
It may take a minute to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone, the person you have loved is so unforgettable, even hearing a message about you will make your heart beat, I also want to forget you, but it's so difficult, so difficult, it's not unwilling, it's love. Even if it seems to you to be wishful thinking, for me it is my own heart breathing.
How long it takes to forget a person, I don't know, I just know that I still haven't forgotten it, and I will still think of you, maybe one day I will forget, maybe I will never forget, only time knows.
How long it takes to forget a person depends on the importance of the person. Therefore, it is impossible to measure it in terms of time.
Someone once said that the longest time to forget a person is seven years, and in these seven years, every day that passes, those cells that store thoughts will die, and one day they will all become new, but someone asked, why have I not forgotten after fifteen years. If people live on cells, they may really be formatted by memory, but unfortunately, none of us are.
There are few bloody episodes in TV dramas, you can have a timely amnesia when the mountains and rivers are exhausted, and living in reality, everyone must go down with memories, which is far more bumpy and sad than TV dramas.
Ways to forget a person:
1. Try your best not to see him (her).
For those who want to forget a person, it is most likely that he or she has hurt you, so you don't want to see it, so you want to forget, so it's best not to go into details.
2. Don't go to places you have been to a lot.
For people who are in love, revisiting the old place usually reminds us of the old story, which is equivalent to revealing the scar again, and these places can be deliberately avoided.
3. Try not to mention things related to the other party
For example, name Xi, etc. Sometimes a small thing reminds you of the past, and if you want to forget a person, you have to forget everything related to the other person.
4. Put up or throw away all the things related to yourself and the other party.
Memories are sometimes very abstract, those real things will be more reminiscent, it can be said that they are more hurtful, throw away the other party's related things, delete the contact information, and make the other party completely disappear in their own world.
