Many colleagues don't know what issues to pay attention to when drinking at dinner? Let's talk about drinking at dinner.
"There is no banquet without wine", wine is good enough to hook words, communicate with each other, and achieve things.
1. There must be a difference in the matter of humility and humility
Some leaders like to drink, and like to drink more, drinking too much will inevitably lose the usual majesty, relatively speaking, relatively open, see the leader let go, you can also be a little more relaxed in language and body, but the ideological strings should be tightened, don't drink to the end and hook up with the leader, call brother and brother, to be honest, you are not worthy for the time being. Find your place, know who you are and what you're here for.
2. Don't forget the rules
The other is the rules on the wine table, and the rules on the wine table are no less than those in the unit.
Many people go to toast the leader, but they don't understand the most basic toasting rules, isn't this embarrassing? The most basic rule of toasting is to hold the cup in both hands, when clinking glasses, the mouth of the cup is always lower than the leader's, the eyes look at each other sincerely, the attitude is not humble or arrogant, depending on the depth of the other party's drinking, they drink a little more than the other party, don't make up the "you do it at will", no one wants to compete with you for the amount of wine, you will seem that the leader is not bold enough.
Leaders should not be persuaded to drink. If the leader says not to drink, don't follow the persuasion endlessly, this is looking for death, the leader will not treat you at the dinner, you try it later.
If you are not sure whether the leader is really not drinking or pretending to resign, you can just say: Leader, I will bring you a cup of tea, you have been really tired from work recently, so you can replace the bar with tea, I believe everyone can understand. If the leader really doesn't want to drink today, then you have helped him out of the siege; If he wanted to drink some, he would naturally say, "Everyone drinks, why am I embarrassed to drink tea, pour it for me." In this way, it seems that the leader is happy with the people, and does not put on a show, you let the leader take such a big face, and the leader can forget you?
3. There must be a degree of drinking
"Illness comes from the mouth, and disaster comes from the mouth", a person destroys himself because of a sentence, such examples abound, so you must speak in a measured manner. It's not difficult to stay sober and keep in proportion, but the hard thing is to stay in proportion after drinking.
As the saying goes, "wine strengthens people's courage", this is not unreasonable, many people are "I was Chinese before drinking, and China is mine after drinking". It's good to have a little more courage, but it depends on what you use it for, and if you continue to drink and talk nonsense, it's to chant your own epitaph.
If you feel that you have almost drunk enough, you must avoid it and do not continue drinking. There are very few people who can maintain their demeanor even after being drunk - very few. If the leader is not drunk at this time, it is easy to become disgusted with the drunk.
As an old comrade in the "alcohol battlefield", I would like to give you a few suggestions:
(1) Do not drink mixed alcohol
(2) Do not drink alcohol on an empty stomach
(3) Pay attention to the rhythm
(4) Drink plenty of boiled water
(5) Drink a glass of milk in advance
(6) The most important point: be able to fight with the mouth (how to say these words, you might as well listen to what the drinker says)
Other details
1. Invite the big leader to dinner, send a text message first, and then call after a small interval. Don't just text messages, it's not solemn enough; Don't call directly, it's too sudden. Be sure to explain the time, place, and people involved in the message, so that the leader can decide whether to come or not.
2. If the leader agrees to come, please prepare the place to eat in advance and arrange the accompanying personnel. If the leader has no opinion, please be sure to pick up the car and send it.
3. Ask someone to do something, and don't go home empty-handed after eating. Therefore, please prepare a gift in advance, you can make two high-end cigarettes, which can be red envelopes (the amount depends on the situation, depending on the identity of the other party), or two bottles of high-end wine. Tobacco and alcohol are not sent in single numbers, good things come in pairs, please keep this in mind.
4. The sovereignty of ordering food is given to the leader, but the leader will delegate it to you in most cases. How? There's learning here. Be sure to pay attention to the combination of meat and vegetables, hot and cold, and see the ratio of men and women, more men will have more meat, and more women will have more vegetarian. Don't ask the price when you order, don't ask the price when you order, don't ask the price when you order, and say the important thing three times. If there is a cold dish, then it should be served by the waiter before the guests are seated, and the rest can be served slowly.
Pay attention to people ordering food, not called ordering, called cloth dishes.
5. The most important thing - ask people to do things, try not to mention on the wine table, even if you have to mention, you can't do it before the meal, when the wine is hot or when the leader receives the gift is the best, eat people's mouths are short, take people short, everyone knows it, this time a little, the thing will be done.
