Do you know how to deal with villains? In the workplace, there is never a shortage of villains, and villains do everything, which is really annoying. In the face of the harassment of the villain, how do we deal with the villain? The following are a few ways to deal with villains that I have compiled for you, I hope it will be helpful to you.
1. When people only say three points, they can't throw away all their hearts
Get along with a gentleman, deal with yourself with sincerity, and you can also know everything. However, whether it is a gentleman or a villain, it is generally not clear at a glance, so it is advocated here that "people only say three points, not all throw a heart", although this move may hurt the heart of the "gentleman", but the gentleman is a gentleman, naturally he will not care too much about this, and the general past is over, the key to this move is to let those villains have no opportunity to take advantage of it, and can actively defend against the villain's harm to you.
2. Know how to be false and deceitful, and see through the real villain
If you want to gain a foothold in this society and even achieve a career, you must not be too simple, you must be mature in mind, know how to be false and deceitful, so that you can see through the real villain, avoid being hurt by the villain, and even make the villain afraid of you and stay away from you. It should be pointed out that knowing how to be false and deceitful is by no means the same as treating others with hypocrisy, and its purpose is only to protect oneself.
3. Don't provoke villains and beware of being victimized by them
What is a villain? The villain is the kind of person who has a small amount of energy, poor character, unscrupulous means of doing things, will be retribution, falling into the well, harming others and benefiting himself or even harming others and not benefiting himself, the villain is best at harming others, often you don't provoke him, he has to provoke you, therefore, if we want to keep the villain away from ourselves, we try not to provoke the villain, beware of being harmed.
Fourth, the big premise of dealing with villains is to be able to harden your heart
As mentioned above, villains are often the ones who don't provoke them, and they will provoke you, that is, in life, sometimes we will inevitably deal with villains, and at this time, we must be able to deal with villains. Villains are often bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, if you blindly give in, accommodate, and appease, the villain will think that you are a bully, so as to gain an inch, therefore, a major premise for dealing with villains is to be able to harden their hearts.
Fifth, you must be able to see through the villain's deception
The villain is not necessarily a liar, but the villain's way of harming others is often inseparable from setting up a scam, so to deal with the villain, you must be able to recognize the villain's deception. The key to seeing through the villain's scam is not to be deceived by the villain's appearance, to put more thought and attention to it, and remember: the villain will never say that he is a villain, or even act very unvillainous.
Sixth, do not be a "good person", but be good at dealing with all kinds of villains
People like "bad people", but villains like them even more, why? Because the "indiscriminate good people" have low vigilance and poor resistance, they are also soft in the face of "villains"! Of course, we must be a "good person", but if we want to keep the villain away from us and deal with the villain, we must not be a "good person", that is, there must be a scale and a bottom line.
7. Use different strategies to deal with different villains
There are many villains, and we have talked about some of them in the third point above, so different strategies should be used to deal with different villains. Here are three common villains to deal with: to deal with insidious villains, to be vigilant, get along with them, always be cautious and careful, don't be taken advantage of by him; To deal with the bullying villain, you can adopt the strategy of taking the lead, looking for an opportunity to let him understand how powerful you are, and he will generally not dare to recruit you; Of course, if it is a very bad slander that has seriously affected your reputation, then it must be clarified, and if necessary, it can also be "brought to court".
How to deal with the containment of villains
1. Secretly unite colleagues and let colleagues cope
When you meet a villain in the workplace, you can secretly unite with other colleagues to see what kind of attitude and ideas everyone treats this person, if some people they hate this villain, then you might as well make good use of it, at this time the radical method is a good choice.
2. Deliberately release smoke bombs to confuse the other party
The second trick to deal with the villain is to deliberately release some fake news to confuse the public and catch the villain off guard. Villains, they think they are very clever in their means, so when they are gloating, it is easy for people to relax their vigilance at this time, you can choose to give the villain a few fake news, make them happy, but you don't know that this is just a superficial phenomenon, you still have a trick.
3. Collect loopholes and evidence in the other party's work, and break it down
The third trick to deal with the villain, that is, to seize the villain's handle, quietly collect some of the villain's work loopholes in the work, and there is evidence to put these loopholes and evidence in front of the villain, all the initiative is in your hands, you let him go east, he dare not go west.
Additional Information:
In the workplace, no matter how powerful the villain is, he is still a villain, and he is still not as high as the leader. If you want to be a good villain, you might as well have a good relationship with his leader and let his leader clean him up. In this way, you don't have to offend the villain directly, and secondly, when his leader cleans him up, he will definitely have nothing to say.
Who makes people have to bow their heads under the eaves, villains They are actually villains because they see many things very thoroughly. Even if they have a bad relationship with their leaders, they are always their top bosses, and they don't dare to offend easily.
Do you know what the villain is most afraid of to deal with him? In daily life, we inevitably encounter some villains, who are selfish and selfish, harming others and themselves. I have carefully sorted out for you the knowledge and information related to what the villain is most afraid of to deal with him, I hope it will be helpful to you.
1. What are villains most afraid of honest people
1. Come to really
Generally speaking, villains are a kind of speculative and more hateful existence, what they are most afraid of is that you are serious with him, and the biggest advantage of honest people is that you don't get in a hurry, and if you are in a hurry, you are really serious about doing things, and you will definitely not stop if you don't achieve your goal.
2. Tell the truth
Honest people, they are generally discerning when they do things and talk, and they are not good at hiding secrets, most of them are honest and honest, so that many of the villains' conspiracies will be exposed and cannot be implemented.
3. Straightforward and fast-talking
For outspoken people, it has always been a group that villains are unwilling to provoke, because it is too transparent, and it cannot achieve his purpose of sowing discord and so on, because outspoken people can't hide things, so villains generally don't calculate such people.
Second, the trick to deal with villains
1. Distinguish between public and private
In the workplace, make a clear distinction between public and private people and things, even if there is a villain, he has no way to take you, and do not do anything with a handle to let others hold it in his hands, such a person can be lucky to survive even if he meets a villain.
2. Anti-routine
For the villain, the most feared are those who are particularly shrewd, because his small plan has no way to pit people, but will be seen through by these smart people and trick him, and finally steal chickens and rice.
3. You are a villain and I am a villain
Since the other party is willing to be a villain, then you might as well be a villain and let him know that you are not easy to bully, and there is a price to pay for calculation.
3. What tricks the villain is most afraid of to deal with him
1. The way of life
This is a compulsory course for each of us, and to know that to survive in this society, we must understand the truth of how to live in the world, which is also known as the governor of the world. Knowing the routines that usually work for villains can prevent and further prevent being calculated by villains.
2. The face of the pig is like a bright heart
You have to learn not to know anything on the face, but you know everything in your heart, so that you can mix well in life and the workplace.
3. Be cautious in words and deeds
For the villain's behavior is to make a small report, if you don't want to be calculated, then you have to keep your information from being known by others, so that you are isolated from his source of information, and naturally you are safe.
