If you often speak without being listened to and others do not listen to you, it is easy to lower your rank and make people look down on you, thinking that you are a person who speaks without logic and level. So why don't we talk to anyone? You may have made the following taboos.
1. Partial topic
What we say is irrelevant, and what we say is irrelevant. It has no relevance to the theme, and even goes far away from the topic. Isn't it a waste of time? Therefore, people are not willing to pay attention to you.
2. Be excessively apologetic
Too much apology means that you are too apologetic to everyone. For example, you forgot to bring some materials and were late for the meeting again. You explain the reason in a long speech there. Now that these things have happened, we don't care about them at all. What we care about is what you say next, which is relevant to us, and what is valuable to us. So don't over express your apologies. Your apologies won't be forgiven by anyone. Instead, over express them to make everyone more and more disgusted.
3. Exposure
When you speak, you seem very shallow and short-sighted, which makes people think that you are a particularly vulgar person, so don't expose your own caution when speaking. This kind of shallow speaking is not conducive to the establishment of human settings.
4. The opening line is unattractive
If the opening statement is not attractive, it has always been flat, there is no ups and downs, no design can attract everyone's attention, and such opening statement is a failure. You should know that if you can't quickly grasp the attraction of everyone, what you say is equal to what you don't say, and it can't change everyone's mood at all.
If what you say is ignored, you can consider whether you have made the above taboo, which makes others unwilling to listen, or even hate to listen. If there are the above mistakes, change them in time. I believe that what you say in the future has more weight, and people are more willing to listen.
