There are four aspects, mainly including using time outside of work to get along with you, keeping a distance if you like female subordinates, being less engaged if you like female subordinates, and being able to feel that male bosses like you when you talk.
1. Spend time with you outside of work
Most married men are ideal and mature, and they prefer to chat and talk with you when they have no official business. On the contrary, he doesn't like to use his working hours to get involved with you, because work is the first priority for him. Therefore, you will find that most of his time with you is outside of work.
2. Likes female subordinates and keeps a distance
The male boss is a married person, and he has a very good wife at home. And you are just a supplement to him. The distance between him and you will not be the same as that between men and women in love, but more inclined to keep distance with you. Perhaps in the workplace, he likes you, but also does not like so publicity. He prefers to have a relationship with you behind the scenes.
3. Likes female subordinates and is not so committed
He has a fairy wife in his family, and you are only his substitute. Only when he is bored and lonely at work, can he talk with you about love. Naturally, he will not be as passionate about you as ordinary men and women.
Show half hearted, or deal with you superficially, rather than really like to stay with you forever. Maybe you will also feel like a junior. Yes, the characteristics of junior can be fully reflected in you. A woman in the workplace may meet a married male boss who wants to be ambiguous with you.
4. The male boss likes you and can feel it
The male boss likes your words, and his words are also interesting to you. When talking to you, most ordinary men don't have that kind of euphemism, but the male boss who likes you speaks to you more gently and takes care of your feelings. This is the difference between men who like you or not.
matters needing attention:
1. While establishing authority, male superiors should try their best to make female subordinates feel psychologically balanced, so as to eliminate their psychological barriers.
2. It is impossible for people to never make mistakes. It is inevitable for subordinates to make some mistakes in their work. If they tolerate mistakes, they may become paralyzed, so that they may make mistakes again or even escalate them. However, when criticizing the mistakes of female subordinates in their work, male supervisors must pay attention to their face.
1、 Take care of you
It is normal for the superior to care about the subordinate employees; But caring is moderate, rather than treating each other specially; If a married male leader teases you; Then he will treat you differently, not only in work, but also in life, with meticulous care and love for you; It seems that you are his treasure. At any time, he will love you, spoil you and protect you; Let you feel a warmth, feel a sweet; In fact, at this time, you have entered his trap.
2、 Give you a raise and promotion
In work, generally speaking, salary increases and promotions should be based on ability and performance; But if your married male leader gives you a raise and promotes you for no reason; It can be said that he wants to use such a way to make you moved for him; He just wants you to have a different liking for him; If you are doing the same thing as others, but suddenly, you are promoted and your salary is increased; Then it shows that your married male leader has a bad heart for you. You must be more careful; Because he doesn't really love you, but wants to play with you.
3、 Under the pretext of cultivating you
A woman, if your married male leader goes anywhere, will take you with him, and will clearly say to you that he thinks you are excellent, so he wants to train you; To be sure, cultivating you is just an excuse. The real reason is that he wants to tease you, so he always takes you with him; In his heart, he has an evil heart for you; In the near future, his fox will show its tail completely; At that time, he will do everything to take possession of you as the end point. Maybe you will still trust him and be willing to devote yourself.
4、 Find reasons to make you work overtime
Most people will finish their work every day, so they will go home on time when they get off work; But if your married male leader only asks you to work overtime with him, and says that there are important things that need to be handled together; Then it can be said for sure that his heart must have a share of the desire for you; So it's fake to keep you working overtime, and it's true to let you accompany him; He just wants to create more opportunities to get along with you alone, so that your heart will slowly become unprepared for him; Maybe once or twice, he acted very decent, but slowly began to move on to you.
5、 Special care at work
A woman, if you are a married male leader, will treat all colleagues equally, but will take special care of you only; Then you can be sure that his mind must have an idea of you; He will give you the least work, and he will let you do the easiest work; There is a great difference between you and others; To be sure, his heart must be interested in you, so he wants to tease you; In his heart, you are a person who longs for a long time in his life; This is not love, but a kind of possessiveness.
6、 Win your sympathy by living unhappily
When your married male leader is with you, he will tell you that his marriage is unhappy, unhappy, and unhappy, and win your sympathy; To be sure, your male leader has taken a fancy to you. He wants to use your weak sympathy to make you feel pity for him; So he talked about his unhappiness, how miserable it was and how desperate he was; And he will tell you that he doesn't want to continue his marriage; In this case, he is leading you to his hook, and then walk with him; But that's not the case. He's trying to get your excuse; When you get rid of you again, you will understand.
Male leaders have feelings for female subordinates
First, he is very concerned about her private life. He often asks her to go to the office. He always asks her questions. In fact, there is nothing important about work.
Second, he never criticizes her. He is impatient with others and always yells, but he is very gentle with her and likes to laugh when he sees her.
Third, he should not take her with him on business trips, but he often takes her with him.
Fourth, he protects her from drinking in the dinner and wine table.
Fifth, when talking to you, the tone will be very special, often making some ambiguous jokes.
When a male boss likes a female subordinate, his tone of voice with you will be different from others. Sometimes it is imperative, sometimes it is joking, and when joking with you, it can make people feel ambiguous.
