What should leaders say when they ask you to borrow money? If you borrow it, you will never come back. If you don't borrow it, you will be afraid that he will wear shoes for you. So what should we do? What should leaders say when they ask you to borrow money? Specific measures should be taken according to the situation.
Before borrowing money from leaders, we still need to understand two principles: first, our tolerance, and the leader. That is, how much money you borrow depends on your own affordability and people's level. Tolerance is how much money you can afford to lose, and you should have an assessment of yourself. It depends on whether the person has a future or not and whether he is worth it. If you are very accurate about the person, he has a future. Today you can borrow a little money or a lot of money to support him. One day in the future, the other party will be in power. Sooner or later, he will give you a hand, which is hundreds of times better than the money you borrowed from him.
When leaders ask us to borrow money, we still need to treat it according to different situations. There are three specific situations for different treatment.
The first case: suitable for big borrowing
If the other person asks you to borrow money, you should not only lend money to him, but also support him even if you ask the people around you to lend some money. At the same time, you should give him more advice. This situation is generally because you look after the person, and he meets the following three situations:
1. His career is at a low point, but he is a person who can talk back and stand up again. At this time, he must borrow money when he reaches out to you, because when people are at a low point, the tree falls and the monkeys scatter, and the wall falls and people push. It is the time when people see human nature most. People who used to call brothers betrayed him. Now you stand up and support him. He will remember you all his life, and you will take good care of him, He stood up and immediately returned you. You sent carbon in the snow.
2. When his loved ones encounter big problems, we must save him. Because you can care more about what he really loves and show your concern and attention, you will make him feel that you are his true brother, so you must give more support when your loved ones are in great trouble or seriously ill and need emergency treatment.
3. You are optimistic about the future of the other party. At the same time, if he is in big trouble, urgent trouble, framed by others, or something that is more private and inconvenient to disclose, you should also help him. If you are optimistic about him, and he is framed by others, it is not convenient to make things public, you can support him privately and pull him out. At this time, he will feel that your personal friendship with him is enough, and he will repay you in the future.
The second case: suitable for normal lending
The so-called normal lending can be divided into two situations:
1. Leaders take you on business trips to buy souvenirs and things temporarily. At this time, they don't bring enough money. In this case, they need to lend normally. Borrowing directly is over. I don't have much money. This is a special case in itself. The leader takes you out so favorably, even if he buys it for the leader, it is worth it.
2. When the leader takes you out to dinner for guests, he doesn't bring enough money. At this time, you can't make the leader lose face. You should try every means to make up for the money. No matter whether the company reimburses or not, your filling action will make the leader feel that you are particularly powerful. After all, it is time to save face, and you will save his face.
The reason why the above two situations are suitable for normal lending is that they don't have much money, and they are also special small cases. They seldom happen. When they happen, the leaders will generally return them to you, so don't worry about this situation.
The third case: symbolic borrowing or non borrowing
In this case, it is necessary to have some art of response. It is very important to respond to him in this way. There are also two cases of symbolic borrowing or non borrowing.
1. You are not familiar with him. You don't know where he will use the money, and what he borrows is not small. In this case, we will borrow symbolically and find an excuse to express our sincerity. You can say something like, "What happened to me some time ago? Since you need to borrow money from the leader, I have so much on hand. If you see enough, you can take it first. If you need it again in a few days, I will look back."
2. Leaders have some special bad habits, such as consuming ahead of time, and other wasteful habits of spending money like running water. If you know the other party is such a person, you can find an excuse to say that you have no money recently, or symbolic small loans. If the amount borrowed by the other party is relatively large, it is not worth taking the risk for him. You can also find a way to delay him or borrow symbolically. You don't want to get too close to such a person, because if you get too close to him, you will be dragged down by him sooner or later.
The above is the situation whether leaders should borrow money from you. When encountering the third kind of leaders, they must show their sincerity. Don't show that they are insincere. Show that they can't do anything. Keep a distance from them. It doesn't matter if they don't borrow money.
