Judging whether a person has a city government or not, it can be seen from his speech. People who have the following four speech habits tend to have a deep city government.
1. Likes to use others' help
He will never speak in his own voice, but in the voice of others. For example, instead of saying "what do I want", he would say "who has mentioned it to me", or say that the team has mentioned it or the leader has mentioned it by name. Then you don't know who is leading the team. He won't say what I care about, but what people care about. In this case, you will never find the people mentioned behind him, so you will rub it with him, and you will make a choice to compromise.
2. Likes to say ambiguous words
He will never be very sure what to promise you. He will add a condition to you: "If anything, I think it should be OK", "If anything can be satisfied, I think it is about the same". What he said is always in a state of progress and retreat, which is not full of words.
3. Like to compliment others
In order to win the hearts of people or make the other party happy, he always finds the good side of the other party and praises them sparingly to make the other party happy, because people are more likely to agree to some requirements when they are happy. So he always makes others happy, and even always thinks from the other side's point of view, saying what the other side wants to say but cannot.
4. I like to say that there is business and quantity
He will not give you the feeling of being particularly strong and direct, especially without emotional intelligence. He will often give you a good layout of the situation. Although he knows that you will agree with him in the end, he will always give you a feeling of great respect, and it depends on how you decide. In fact, he knows very well that you will make decisions according to the way he envisions. This is Chengfu Shen, who will always give you the initiative, but will not give you complete absoluteness.
In the future, when meeting people with the above speaking characteristics, you should remain in awe. Otherwise, if you get too close to him, you will not improve your maturity, and you will be easily trapped by him.
