What should I do if I find there is no place for you when I attend a leadership dinner? Sometimes when we arrange meals, we don't think enough, or there are other external reasons that lead to no place in the meal. What should we do to deal with this situation?
The first situation: to participate in the official dinner of the leaders, and the meal was arranged by you, because the number of both sides was not calculated in advance, and it was only when everyone arrived at the hotel that they found that the position was not enough. In this case, we must not shy away from it, and do not act idly. We should actively face it, and do not leave an irresponsible person to the guest leader, And the negative impression of escaping when something goes wrong. If you find that only one or two corresponding positions are missing, you can quit first, or take the other party with a corresponding attendant, the same level, to eat out, and call the leader to call you if necessary. If there are many poor positions, then you can see what else on your side is comparable to your own. At the same time, you can provide good company. Then you can open another box and another table outside. So we should actively deal with it and face it. We can't just let the leaders give us ideas.
The second situation: the leader's informal dinner, the leader temporarily added people, and didn't tell you in advance. If this is the case, one or two seats are needed, so you can add more stools. If you can't add more stools, you can discuss with the waiter whether you can change to a larger box, a larger table. If this is not the case, we can give them our seats first, and then we can come out first to say hello to leaders, and call you directly if there is a problem. If it is a temporary addition of the guest leader, it is also the same treatment. Do not wait for the guest to lead out ideas.
The third situation: Some people arrange this meal to embarrass you on purpose, so they have one place less for you. What should we do? Remember never to explode in situ. You know that someone deliberately attacks you, and you should also show your self-restraint. For example, at that moment, you don't care about this person. Instead, you find your own leader and say hello to him first. When you are dining out, you should always call you when you have something to do. At the same time, you should also greet the leader of the other party and be polite. You should take care of the feelings of the people who should be taken care of in the whole situation. Finally, you can eat outside and call you when the leader has something to do.
In any case, we all need to know whether our identity role is the host or the guest, the main dinner invitation role, or we are the attendant role and assistant role. Because your role is different, the occasion is different, and the reasons behind this problem are different, in fact, there are different solutions.
