It is perfectly normal for a 34 year old boy not to get married in today's society. Everyone's life rhythm and marriage concept are different. Both men and women may choose different life paths and marriage schedules. Some men may choose to pursue career development, self realization or find suitable partners, while others may pay more attention to family, marriage and children.
In addition, in modern society, people pay more attention to personal freedom and choice, and the concept of marriage and family is also changing. Therefore, it is not unusual for men to be unmarried at the age of 34, but they should be respected and understood.
Everyone's life path and marriage concept are different. We should respect and understand everyone's choice, not just judge whether it is normal according to age.
The 34 year old man who has not married cannot say that most of them are abnormal, but only a few others. With the development and progress of society, today's boys are relatively late in getting married. For one thing, they are 28 years old when they graduate, and they still need to work hard to make money in the workplace or in Shanghai. This process will take about 10 years to get some results. So, in this stage of struggle, they do not want to get married, Once you are over 30 years old, you can consider marriage only when your hard work and struggle have achieved results. Therefore, it cannot be said that 33 year old men who have not yet married are abnormal.
However, it is not ruled out that there are some problems for those who are not married in their 30s, but it is an individual phenomenon after all.
There are many possible reasons for 34 year old boys not getting married. The following are some possible factors:
1. Haven't met the right person: The boy may not have met the person he thinks is right. He may have very high expectations for marriage and partners, hoping to find a person who really suits him.
2. Focus on career: This boy may focus on his own career, hoping to achieve something in his career before considering marriage and family.
3. Don't want to be bound: The boy may like a free lifestyle and don't want to be bound by marriage and family.
4. Psychological trauma: The boy may have experienced some psychological trauma in the past, such as breaking up, lovelorn, etc., which led him to fear or doubt about marriage and family.
5. Personal preference: The boy may prefer the single lifestyle, and think that marriage and family are not the lifestyle he wants.
6. Economic pressure: The boy may think that marriage and family need to spend a lot of money, and he does not have enough financial ability to bear these costs.
The above are some possible reasons, but the specific situation needs to be analyzed according to the boy's personal experience and situation.
