First calm down your feelings, then buy some small gifts for your girlfriend. If a dumb person makes his girlfriend angry, he should first pacify his own emotions. Don't try to coax the other party with emotions, and don't think about problems in the way of boys. This will only make the other party more angry; Then you can buy some small gifts for your girlfriend to express your apology, such as necklaces, earrings, flowers, etc. When you buy a gift for your girlfriend, you should also pay attention to what she likes. If she doesn't like it, she will become more angry.
If you think you are dumb and often make your girlfriend angry, you can consider the following ways to improve the situation:
1. Learn to communicate: learning to communicate effectively is the key to solving problems. Don't assume that your girlfriend knows your thoughts or feelings. Expressing them directly can avoid misunderstandings and unnecessary contradictions. When communicating, try to avoid emotional words, respect each other's opinions, and try to convince others with reason.
2. Learn to listen: listening is also an important part of communication. When communicating with your girlfriend, you should carefully listen to her opinions and feelings, understand her position and views, give her sufficient space to express and understand, and avoid interrupting or ignoring her views.
3. Learn to apologize: If you make your girlfriend angry, apologize in time, express your apology and be willing to improve your attitude. When apologizing, you should honestly admit your mistakes and show your determination to correct them.
4. Learn to pay attention: paying attention to the feelings and needs of your girlfriend is also an important communication skill. In daily life, we should pay attention to the emotional changes of our girlfriend, actively ask her about her needs and feelings, and provide appropriate support and help.
5. Learn to learn: It is very helpful to keep learning and improving your communication skills. You can improve your communication ability by reading relevant books, participating in communication training, and observing others' excellent communication methods, so as to avoid unnecessary conflicts caused by being dumb.
The most important thing is to respect your girlfriend's feelings, understand her position and views, and try to think from her perspective, so that you can better understand and solve problems.
How to coax your girlfriend
01. Tell your girlfriend a funny joke to make her laugh when she is angry. As soon as she smiles, it means that she has begun to forgive you. Then communicate with her in a sincere manner, and slowly clarify the reason for anger.
02. Take the initiative to hug your girlfriend. When your girlfriend starts to get angry, she will not talk to you. At this time, you can take the initiative to hug her. You should know that hugs can replace many things. Silence is better than sound. In the meantime, admit your mistakes to her.
03. Give her a small gift. When your girlfriend is angry, you can give her a small gift to show that you will never make her angry again. This can often achieve twice the result with half the effort. No matter whether the gift is big or small, if you send it to him with the intention of apologizing, it means you put down your dignity. In your heart, girlfriend is the most important.
04. Ask your girlfriend to give you a little punishment and ask her to punish you for your mistakes. At this time, she will act like a pathetic person, and her anger may disappear.
05. Take the initiative to apologize for the quarrel between two people. No matter whose fault it is, as a generous boyfriend, you should take the initiative to apologize to your girlfriend. Be sincere and humorous when apologizing. Explain that your girlfriend will forgive you for your mistakes. When your girlfriend is angry, no matter what the reason, you must take the initiative to apologize and take the initiative to take the blame.
06. If your girlfriend is angry and says she is in a bad mood and wants to eat, don't ask her why she wants to eat. She must say nothing and buy her favorite food in your memory (preferably packaged, so that it will not be cold when she is in a good mood), but don't threaten her by not eating.
