The behavior of girls testing boys varies from person to person, and there is no fixed routine. However, the following are some common behaviors that may be considered as girls testing boys:
1. Sometimes cold and sometimes hot: girls may show sometimes warm and sometimes cold attitude to test boys' patience and attention to them.
2. Sudden disappearance: girls may suddenly stop replying to messages or not contacting boys at the beginning of a relationship to test whether boys will actively pursue and care for them.
3. Take other male friends out: The girl may deliberately get along with other male friends alone, and observe whether the boy will show jealousy or anxiety.
4. Ask boys to do some special things: girls may deliberately put forward some special requirements, such as sending valuable gifts, accompanying her to participate in various activities, etc., to test whether boys are willing to pay for them.
5. Observe boys' reaction: girls may observe boys' reaction through some small tests, such as deliberately lying or making some small misunderstandings, to see whether boys can understand and deal with it.
6. Test the loyalty of boys: girls may test the loyalty and specificity of boys by testing whether boys will actively keep a distance from other women.
7. Observe how much boys care about themselves: girls may deliberately show that they need help or trouble, and observe whether boys care and provide support.
8. Test the economic strength of boys: girls may deliberately propose some expensive activities or shopping requirements to test the economic strength of boys and the degree of willingness to spend for them.
9. Observe boys' family background and social circle: girls may learn about boys' social status and interpersonal relationships by asking boys' family background, circle of friends, etc.
10. Test the patience and tolerance of boys: girls may deliberately create some minor contradictions or criticize some behaviors of boys to test whether boys have enough patience and tolerance.
These behaviors do not mean that all girls will take them, and testing is not a good way to establish healthy relationships. In building a relationship of mutual respect and trust, honesty, understanding and communication are more important.
Women test men's skills
The first move: Do the opposite and be indifferent to him.
Many women use this trick to test men, because it is easiest to imagine. However, some effects are significant, some are not obvious, and some have no effect. As for you, you are actually using this move. Maybe you haven't noticed it yet. However, what you find is that he still makes you unable to know whether he is interested in you or not. In other words, it has no effect. Among them, there is also a possibility that both you and him are indifferent to each other, which makes them confusing. Maybe when you are confused, he is also confused.
The second move: fully show a woman's gentle nature, and be nice to her.
This move sounds like an affectation. Actually, it is not. In other words, you should take concrete actions to treat him as well as you can. See how he reacts. Or, see if he can stand your kindness to him. If he can stand it, it means he is interested in you. Your problem will be solved. If he can't stand it, it means he has no interest in you. Your problem has been solved.
The third move: fully demonstrate the indifferent nature of women, be cold to him, and then be cold.
The goal of this move is the same as that of the previous move, except that different means have different usages. To be exact, the means are used in the opposite way. In other words, you can treat him as cold as you can. If he can stand your coldness to him, it means he has no interest in you. He doesn't care if you are cold to him. If he can't stand your coldness to him, it means that he is interested in you, and you care about whether he is cold or not.
The fourth move: directly and frankly, ask him: "Are you interested in me?"
Everyone knows how to use this move. But why are so many people not using it? The reason is very simple. You must have considerable courage or thick skin to use this move. There is a great spirit of being interesting but not surprised, and uninteresting but not disorderly. In recent years, the implication has been replaced by direct confession. For you, I have hinted to him many times that you are interested in him. However, he did not make any specific representations from beginning to end. In other words, the hint has failed. Since it has failed, why not change a new approach? You and he are adults, so don't worry about anything. Happiness depends not only on hands, but also on mouth. If you use this move, you may hit the target with one move. Then again, the probability of failure is very small. If you don't believe it, try it.
