If you have apologized but your girlfriend still doesn't forgive you, there may be several possible reasons:
1. Apology is not sincere enough: If you apologize just to get forgiveness from your girlfriend, but do not really realize your mistakes and shortcomings, your apology may not be sincere enough to impress your girlfriend.
2. The problem is more serious: if your behavior or words have caused great harm to your girlfriend, she may need more time and effort to repair her emotional trauma. In this case, you need to wait patiently and give her enough time and space.
3. Girlfriends need time: Sometimes, even if you have sincerely apologized, girlfriends still need time to deal with their feelings and thoughts. In this case, you need to give her enough time and space to think calmly and reflect.
4. Girlfriend has been disappointed: If your behavior or words have disappointed and despaired your girlfriend, she may ignore your apology and explanation. In this case, you need to admit your mistakes and try to change your behavior and attitude to prove that you have grown and changed.
In any case, you need to patiently understand and support your girlfriend. You can try to communicate with her, understand her thoughts and feelings, and then find a suitable time to try to repair the relationship again. Most importantly, you need to remain sincere and determined, make yourself better, and let your girlfriend see your changes and efforts.
Some things, even if you admit your mistake, or you are right, but want to compromise in such an event. Maybe others will consider their own emotions first, and others will not understand your feelings in their emotions.
It may also be that you don't care too much, for example, if someone says something bad to you, you don't care about him, you won't pay attention to what he says, what impact it has on you, and the impression of this person doesn't matter, which means it doesn't matter in your heart!
In this way, you can be quiet for a period of time, and don't always want to seek answers and ask for responses, otherwise it will deepen the other party's bad impression on you, and it will annoy you even more.
After a period of time, the other party will be calm about this matter. It is not so important. You can try friendly exchanges. After all, everyone has his own space, no matter how intimate he is.
There are always many contradictions and misunderstandings in the relationship between people. Therefore, the relationship between the two sides also needs to be tolerant and understood. Many people don't know how to correctly express their wrong ideas, thus causing unnecessary harm to the other party. So, what should you do when your girlfriend doesn't forgive you after you quarrel with her? When you are really dissatisfied with your girlfriend, don't act angry!
1. Don't blame her
Some men will be very angry after quarreling with their girlfriends. Because at this time he would feel very unfair. In the opinion of her girlfriend, she is not doing well enough, and because of this, she blames the other party, which leads to deeper and deeper conflicts between them. This is a typical "never admit mistakes". In fact, when both parties are angry, you can also say to your girlfriend: "I'm really not good enough, I'm sorry about this.". Although there will be some anger, do not act very angry at this time.
2. Give her enough time
Your attitude should not be as tough as usual. You think your girlfriend wants to get back together with you, so you want to get back together with her. But after you do this, girls will still want to get back together with you. So you must give her enough time to think about whether she means wrong or really loves you. If she just wants to get back together with you, you can give her some time properly. If she thinks you really don't love her, you should not force her.
3. Understand empathy
Many people will be very angry after quarreling with their girlfriends. In fact, we should learn to put ourselves in other's shoes. This is very important. When you learn to think in terms of position, you will be able to understand more deeply what your position in your girlfriend's heart is and whether you are a correct man, which is crucial. If you can do this, you will have a better relationship with him. Of course, if you can't do this, you can go to understand this problem.
4. Don't use cold violence to force the other party out of the misunderstanding
Many couples are very afraid of each other's attitude after quarreling, and will also choose to use cold violence to force each other out. This method will make many women feel that they have gone out of the wrong zone! And do you think so?
5. Find out why she did something wrong
When you are in the next step of communication, you must first make it clear: Why is your girlfriend dissatisfied with you? Is it because she is too strong, or because she thinks you have done something wrong? Is it because she only wants to control you, or because she has more imagination of you? If you don't find the problem, you will be very impatient when communicating. If you can't solve the problem, when communicating, you must remember that solving the problem is to solve the problem from the root, not to blame the other party, to blame yourself for being right or wrong! Of course, if you can't find the reason, you must apologize to her in time!
