There are still opportunities to be hated by girls, but pay attention to the way. First, find out why she hates you. Is it because your behavior, language or attitude makes her feel uncomfortable, or for other reasons. Only when we understand the specific reasons can we change our behavior in a targeted way and regain her favor.
Second, show your sincerity and change. If she is dissatisfied with some of your behaviors, you should be willing to correct them and let her see your changes. At the same time, we should also respect her feelings and decisions and not be too demanding.
Finally, keep a positive attitude and patience. The process of recovering her may be very long, and may also encounter setbacks and rejection. But as long as you really like her, are willing to change yourself for her, and maintain a positive attitude and patience, you will have a chance to regain her favor.
Even if you like it, you have to pursue it boldly, but many boys are too eager to chase girls. The result is that girls are either scared away or disliked by girls. Can you remedy this situation?
1、 Can you remedy the dislike of chasing girls
It can be remedied that chasing girls too hastily is repugnant.
Girls' attitude towards feelings is quite sensitive; So when you pursue a girl, you are too eager to cause her aversion; At this time, your method is wrong; But as long as you have the heart, you can still go back to the past between two people; As long as you change your way, you can still have the sincerity of girls.
Only when a girl has an idea and a feeling for you in her heart can two people get together; So at this time, it is not suitable to use this method to pursue girls' hearts; You must change your behavior and slowly gain the heart of a girl first, so that you can really have the love of a girl.
2、 Remedy for chasing girls too hastily
1. Change your way of chatting
When you are chatting with girls, you will find that you can't wait to speak up to girls, and girls will be unprepared, and then don't know what to do, which will lead to the phenomenon of silence. If you are too impatient, the girl will guess your idea. Therefore, you must change your chat mode to attract girls. It's also good for girls to have a good opinion of you in chat.
So how to enrich your chatting style? For example, use games to chat, or use sharing to chat, and so on. Remember not to always ask and answer questions. This form is most likely to make girls hate you.
2. Move girls with practical actions
When a girl has guessed your idea, you must not panic. The most important thing to remember at this time is panic, because when you panic, you are afraid of doing something wrong. Therefore, you can use your practical actions to move girls, do more things for girls in life, and pay more attention to girls. No matter it is big or small, you should think about problems from the perspective of girls. However, you should also have your own ideas, so that you can set off your own ideas.
Caring for girls can also show your sincerity. But you can't care about girls all the time, which will cause girls to ignore you. Do something in a proper way, and do it at an appropriate time, which will have different effects.
3. Create dating opportunities
When a girl gets along with you, your initiative makes the girl guess your idea, and then the girl doesn't want to be with you. What should you do? At this time, you must know that this way of doing things will make girls do not want to chat with you or go out to dinner with you.
You should try to create some dating opportunities, so that in a romantic atmosphere, girls will gradually feel very happy with you. Because just chatting and not going out to meet can't work very well. Never ask girls out for dinner directly, because girls will definitely not agree. When a girl says she is bored, you will be willing to ask a girl again.
3、 What should I do if I am repelled by chasing girls
1. Grasp the degree
For those who are enthusiastic about girls at the beginning, and girls say they are not suitable, it is really a good remedial measure to chase girls too quickly and then cool her for a few days. But you should control the degree. Otherwise, girls will leave you if you are too cold or too hot. For example, if a girl likes you or you think she gives you hope (not the kind of self indulgence), it is better to keep it hot; If you keep a girl cold for too long, the girl will feel that you must not be sincere to her. Otherwise, why don't you persist in your enthusiasm for a few days. It's like putting a table of delicious food in front of you after you are full. No matter how delicious the food is, you can't eat it. But when you are hungry for a few days, there is a lot of food in front of you. Of course, you will pay attention to it.
2. Let her get used to your existence
In fact, it's best for a girl to keep getting hot, let her get used to having you, take care of her in every way to pursue her, and establish a relationship with her after a long time. If she is rejected, you will not be able to erase in her mind. However, it is often said that people play hard to get when they are too eager to catch a girl. In fact, people have this characteristic. The better you treat her, the less you cherish her. Instead, if you snub her, she will take the initiative to find her. Emotional problems have been difficult to solve since ancient times. If there are so many stories about love, you will know whether you can become a lover at first sight. You are unwilling to give up now.
3. Become excellent
A beautiful girl will have thousands of men chatting up with her every year. If you really want to pursue her, first let her know that she is interested in you, so you should be excellent. You should be better than other competitors, internal and external, external clothing, behavior and behavior should have a good image, internal humor and humor have connotation, personal charm quality, etc, Of course, these may be difficult for a white man, so I suggest you try to learn more experience. For example, you should set a daily rule to chat, chat, read fashion magazines, love related books, or sign up for some emotional courses. It is important to take action, and if you like it, go after it!
