In love, girls with high EQ often have an advantage because for boys, they prefer girls of this type. But for girls with low EQ, it is very painful. So I will tell you today how girls with high EQ get along with their boyfriends.
1、 Why do girls have the advantage of high EQ?
There was a saying that if you want to get along with a man happily, you should know him more, but don't love him too much.
In fact, there are two different modes when two people get along, but if their EQ is high, they will know how to get along with each other and make each other feel comfortable. That is, because of their high EQ, they can gain all the hearts of the other party, and the other party also pays more attention to them, so they are very affectionate, which is why girls with high EQ are better.
2、 Don't ask him whether he loves you all the time
Many girls will ask their boyfriends whether they love themselves when they are in love, because only in this way can they find the sense of security they want. Xiaobian wants to say that love needs to be understood and tasted carefully. A girl with high EQ will not ask her boyfriend whether he loves her all day long. We should face this feeling with the most natural attitude. This is the case in the world. The more you care about something, the less valuable it becomes. Although you care about it, you should not show too much concern. In this way, he will not value you.
3、 Give him enough trust
In love, girls always have doubts about whether their boyfriend doesn't love them or has cheated. In fact, Xiaobian wants to say that the most important thing for two people to get along is to trust each other and not try to test each other, because love can't stand the test and can't go to the test at all. So girls with high EQ will give their boyfriends enough trust. In this way, they can capture all the hearts of each other. Only with faith can we have a firm belief in love.
In love, what will women with high EQ do to men?
1. Learn retrogression well
No matter what kind of emotion you are in, taking a step back will be boundless. If two people only force the other party to think in their own way, it will only make the other party feel that you don't care about his experience. In love, a woman with high EQ has always known about regression. She knows that it is worth giving up a little personal gain and loss for love.
2. You don't have to invest all your ideas in men
Many women always think that if they want men to love themselves all the time, and if they want men not to leave themselves, they should be wholeheartedly good to men, and should regard men as the core of one's world. But women also need to know that if a man gets the love of your life, he will only be unscrupulous, and feel that your love for this is cheap. Women with high EQ will indulge in men's lust. Don't put all your thoughts on him.
3. Save face for men
Men are all about face, and women should learn to protect men's face and give men face in their feelings. Even if you are the woman he loves very much, if you always do something that makes him lose face and make him lose face, then one day he will leave you because he can't stand you. Therefore, women with high EQ know how to save face for men.
4. Understand men
Men have always expected to be understood by others, especially their relatives and their beloved women. Therefore, even if the whole world misunderstands a man, even if all people do not understand him, you need to become the woman who understands him. This is the main performance of a woman with high EQ. If you become the woman who knows him in his heart, he will certainly not want to give up on you easily.
After falling in love, no matter which woman should work hard to improve her EQ and IQ. If you always use some low EQ methods to deal with problems in your relationship, even if you have paid a lot for a man, he will feel that you have only caused him deep confusion. Such women cannot be spoiled by men.
