It's really a disadvantage that we don't talk about the scenes in Jianghu circles. Some of us have been reticent and always try to be realistic and say as much as we can, but never say as much as we can. Such people deserve to be close friends. However, in various circles of the Jianghu, it's difficult to establish diplomatic relations with others and make a deep impression on others if we are not good at words, It's hard to make others like you.
It is not necessary to say the words on the scene to implement them. The words on the scene are to make the other party feel comfortable, happy and face saving. That's all. So how on earth should we talk about the scene? Remember these three dimensions.
Dimension 1: positive attitude
For example, if someone asks you to do something in front of others in the liquor store, or someone asks you something, you must keep the face in this case. If you say no to others, they will feel embarrassed. Even if you can't do it, you can respond by saying, "You've already said that. I must go back and ask for you. I'll give you the news as soon as I ask. Come on, let's drink." This is the scene. It's not important what you ask for the other party at the end, The important thing is that if someone asks in front of everyone, you should give a positive response in front of everyone to make them look brighter
Dimension 2: expressing sincere respect
It is to convey a sense of respect in front of others, hold them up and shape them. For example, when you introduce someone to him, you can say, "This is my mentor. This is my mentor in some aspect. Without what he used to be, there will be nothing I am now." This way, you will praise the other person. Why do businesses boast about each other? It is a principle that we must adhere to when mixing circles.
Dimension 3: heartfelt praise
The so-called sincere praise means that when the other party shows something, we should show our admiration. For example, when you arrive at the meeting place today and find that the arrangement of the meeting place is very exquisite, you can praise "Wow, the first time I saw that the arrangement of the meeting place is so exquisite, what kind of professional team did you hire? It's so beautiful." This is the scene of sincere praise. The opposite side will also listen very well and be more impressed with you.
