Girls are not unpopular when they are conservative. This idea is a kind of self protection. In modern society, girls are much more likely to be hurt than before because men and women interact very casually. At this time, girls are conservative and can protect themselves in the process of communication, which is a good thing. However, if the conversation between friends is conservative and solidified, it may affect the feelings between friends, so we should respect other people's habits.
Because people are now open-minded, they can learn something about men and women's communication from many channels, so many people will no longer respect these things, and even make mistakes when they step across this line early. At this time, if it is a conservative girl, she should definitely refuse, so it can protect herself.
In this respect, conservatism is a good thing. I think it is the most correct for students to do what they should do at this age, at least they will not regret it later.
However, if the thought is too conservative and solidified when communicating with friends, it may affect the feelings between friends. In serious cases, it may break the friendship. Therefore, we should respect the other party's speaking habits in friend exchanges.
You can not get used to what others say, but you can not blindly deny what others say, or you will only go farther and farther with your friends. In this process, what we can do is to try our best to analyze the information given by the other party. If the conclusion is that we are too conservative, we should correct it, so that we will seek common ground while reserving differences.
Therefore, conservatism should be divided into two aspects. When communicating with friends, one should not be too rigid. One should have his own ideas and listen to others' suggestions, so as to be more popular.
Secondly, if you are dealing with the opposite sex, it is better to be conservative in adolescence, because it is necessary to protect yourself. You can't change your habits just because you cater to others. If you force others to agree, you will turn yourself into a stranger.
Are the girls who are conservative and traditional now not very popular with boys
No, in general, normal men or boys with a bottom line will not easily play with conservative traditional girls. For these girls, scum men and others often dare not touch them!
No, think more. Traditional conservative girls are actually girls' own choice, which does not mean that traditional conservatism is good. I mean, even in front of traditional boys, traditional women are not necessarily good. It's just a choice. People will always choose one kind of people, that is, people who are already good, People who have lived a full life and are decent and unrestrained are always liked by people.
In fact, most boys like conservative girls best, but there are not many such girls. How can men pursue conservative girls?
How to identify "conservative" girls
What girls say is different from what they think.
A girl told you that she was very conservative and her relationship was very slow, but when she was dating you, she kept probing, making noises, and answering the phone calls of two or three different men. Maybe you accidentally enter the rhythm of the spare tire. The longer you stay, the deeper you get.
Do you think such girls are "conservative"? Will you be "single-minded"? Will I respect you in the future?
If a girl is like this:
1) In the process of dating, she is very focused. She will never stare at her mobile phone, nor will she keep ringing phone messages;
2) Easily won't break an appointment, even if can't keep an appointment will politely inform you in advance;
3) They will actively contact the other party, answer the phone in time, and respond to SMS messages quickly.
congratulations! This kind of girl is exactly the one you want to find. She is very single-minded towards feelings and will not take the initiative to "betray".
This kind of girl has one characteristic. It is difficult for her to get intimate with you on a first date. If she wants to agree to be intimate with you, it is often based on formal boyfriend and girlfriend or marriage.
1、 Pay attention to your clothes and behavior
Conservative girls are the most meticulous. They pay close attention to some details in the daily life of the boys around them to judge the basic image of a boy.
If someone is lucky enough to have a date with his favorite goddess, it is actually at the Valentine's Day. Remember: it's better to wear a formal suit instead of a tie, but remember: it's better to put a small square scarf in the left pocket of your suit.
2、 Pay attention to the coexistence of "women first" and "men strong".
Women are creatures with complex emotions. For example, when a girl is forced to kiss, her heart will have tens of thousands of different emotional changes.
If you have an appointment with a conservative girl and are attacking her, you must pay attention to the principles of "women first" and "men strong".
3、 Create romance and encounter, and get her heart completely.
The simplest thing is to take a bunch of roses to express yourself. The best way to express yourself is to speak louder and choose a place with more people. Of course, in today's era when the Internet media is so developed, young boys have seen many youth love dramas. I don't need to give more examples. You can follow suit.
