True breakup means that when the relationship is broken or the marriage relationship exists in name only, the party concerned hopes to get rid of the pain by breaking up, so they will take some extreme measures, such as coercion, coercion or entanglement, when breaking up. False breakup means that the party concerned does not want to end a relationship, but just proposes to break up because of impulse. The main purpose of fake breakup is to hope that the breakup can help to achieve the purpose of saving feelings. There are many cases of fake breakups. For example, one party wants to end the relationship, but is unwilling to say it because of face, so it adopts a fake breakup to make the other party mistakenly believe that the relationship can be saved. But in fact, this is just a fake. The party did not really give up the relationship, just to make his heart feel better.
The difference between fake breakup and real breakup is:
1、 Different ways of breaking up
1. Pseudo breakup: Pseudo breakup is often sudden, because of the stimulus of a certain event, resulting in conflict, and then split up instantly.
2. True breakup: often after careful consideration, and there is no extreme behavior when breaking up.
2、 Different emotions of breaking up
1. Pseudo breakup: Pseudo breakup usually occurs when the mood is unstable. One sentence: "Get out of here." In exchange, the other party leaves quickly, resulting in a split up.
2. True breakup: two people are in a peaceful mood, and know that they are not suitable for each other, or there are many difficulties and obstacles that cannot be overcome, and the end is wordless.
3、 Different possibilities of recovery
1. False breakup: Generally, a false breakup can be successful within a few days from the start of the recovery program.
2. True breakup: True breakup is much more complicated. True breakup needs to develop a systematic recovery plan, and it is also difficult to succeed. It needs to be done well in every step and every link. Sometimes, if you have done every step of every link well, you may not be able to recover it.
How to judge a true breakup and a false breakup? Whether it needs to be recovered depends on your heart. After entering the marriage, only the trivial things of life remain. Whether your partner changes his mind or not is a very serious problem. The following is how to judge a true breakup and a false breakup!
1. Different emotions
False breakup: This kind of breakup usually involves the woman deleting your QQ and WeChat, but leaving your phone number. If you contact him on the phone, you must show anger or blame when you call him. This is a typical false breakup, which also shows that the conflict is in a serious situation, At this time, we must skillfully find opportunities to recover, such as calling every day every other week.
True breakup: The other party simply becomes indifferent to you, and you become as dispensable as the air. The other party blackens all your contact information, leaving none. In this way, the girl may be really disappointed with you.
No matter what you do, there may be a very boring mood or avoidance mood. You can choose another way to recover. If the other party's mood also fluctuates, this is also one of the more important indicators of recovery.
2. I can't even see you
False breakup: Even if she tries to pull you black, she will promise to meet you by contacting him through other channels. This may be a false breakup.
Maybe the other person is trying to tempt you, hoping you can ask her out to meet you. If you are soft hearted, maybe the two people will make up again.
True breakup: If you ask her out through any channel and she doesn't meet you, it is likely that two people will never meet again. No matter what way you use it, you will not get any response. In this case, true breakup is only possible.
3. Disappear completely
False breakup: You may appear from time to time, and may have a certain circle of communication because of some things. This is a typical false breakup.
True breakup: When a girl breaks up with you, she may choose to disappear completely, which means that she has begun to completely give up on you, and that she has regarded you as a stranger psychologically. Even if you are in the same class, you may not even look at you, and there will be no demand for you.
4. Friends around
False breakup: If you two break up and your friends around you start to persuade you to get back together, it means that one party may ask his friends to persuade you, which is a typical false breakup.
True breakup: Friends around you may not mention each other, and worry about stabbing the pain in your heart. Friends of both sides may feel that you are not suitable to be together or really break up instead of being in a bad mood. Therefore, when we get along with you again, we will not mention anything on the other side, even if we hear a little wind and grass, we may not tell you.
