Whether men really love women or not is a basis for not caring for women; Generally speaking, no one can control love; As long as you really fall in love with a person, you must always be considerate of the other person. But as long as you don't really love someone, you won't pay attention to them.
A man has no interest in you, which can be seen from every bit of life; As if you were beside him, a dispensable person; He will forget your existence and ignore your feelings.
1、 I haven't contacted you for a long time
If you really love someone, as long as the other person is not around you, you will always be unable to control it, and you should contact the other person; Sometimes, I make several calls and send countless WeChat messages every day.
But men can do it, they don't contact you for a long time; Day by day, you can't wait for a phone call or a message from him; Because he doesn't think of you at all in his heart, so he won't think of you and should contact you; Because he contacted you, he didn't know what to tell you.
It seems that between you and him, you are just an outsider, just a passer-by; He doesn't treat you as his woman at all; It seems that everything about you has nothing to do with him; He won't care, let alone think of consolation.
2、 Never remember you like
A person who regards you as everything, what you like and what you don't like, he is clear and unambiguous.
But men know nothing about you; You obviously like singing and dancing, but he doesn't know how well you sing and how charming you dance; He still doesn't know what you hate.
What you like to eat and what you don't like to eat is the simplest thing that he doesn't know; In fact, it is because I have no interest in you; So everything you have is worthless in his eyes; He will ignore everything about you because he doesn't have you in his heart.
3、 I never have time for you
It is the happiest and happiest thing for lovers to accompany their loved ones and watch the flowers fade and bloom; Many couples want to get bored with each other every day.
But your man, when you want to meet him, he finds an excuse, finds a reason, and says he has no time to accompany you; You can play wherever you want; He has time, but he just doesn't want to accompany you.
Because I don't feel much about you, I always feel that I will feel uncomfortable when I stay with you; Look at you, you will be unhappy; That's why I don't have time to accompany you, and I don't want to stay with you.
4、 Not willing to spend money for you
When a man treats a woman as a treasure, he will be very willing to spend thousands of dollars on her; As long as women are happy, it doesn't matter how much men pay.
However, the man you love, who spends a little money for you, will be particularly distressed; It seems that if you pay a little, he thinks it is a waste; If you want something, you have to pay for it yourself, and he finds an excuse not to pay for it.
A man who doesn't want to spend a penny on you can only show that you don't exist in his heart; You have never been splashed in his world; How much you pay for him will not be valuable.
5、 No substantial contribution
Take you as a person, you will find that he will use his actual actions to explain how much he loves you and cares about you.
Men will deal with everything for you to make you happy; But your man has never done anything, a substantive action; When he needs, he comes to you, but when he doesn't, he leaves you.
He didn't cook a meal for you; He didn't wash the dishes for you once; He didn't buy a dress for you; He didn't do anything touching for you; It seems that you are a tool in his mind. You can be used when it is useful and abandoned when it is useless.
On the way to love, women must see men's faces clearly; The more you give to a person who doesn't care about you, the more painful your future will be; If you let go earlier, you can save some face; Otherwise, sooner or later, he will abandon you.
What kinds of behaviors does a man have in his relationship? One of them shows that he doesn't have you in his heart at all? I believe that every woman is looking forward to having a sweet love, but if you feel that the person you love has the following four abnormal behaviors, you must be careful.
1. Frequently cold and hot
If you really love someone, you will naturally expect to stay with her all the time. However, if you feel that his attitude towards you has always been hot and cold, he will often become more and more affectionate when he wants your help, but will always leave you behind when he is free. Not only is your attitude suddenly cold, but your data is often not returned half a day or even all day. There is no need to doubt that he will only play with you, otherwise he will not be so perfunctory with your attitude.
2. Not willing to take you to meet friends
If you want to know a man at a deeper level, you should not only observe him himself, but also make friends with his colleagues and good friends, so as to understand his many situations. If a man says he loves you again and again, but keeps hiding his actual situation, he is almost unwilling to accompany you to get to know his friends, and even rarely announces their relationships on social software. So no matter how grandiose he is, I must have a certain understanding of your current situation. It is very likely that he just wants to play with you casually, and has no intention from beginning to end, so he will not take you to meet his family and good friends.
3. Spend money for you and haggle over every detail
As the saying goes, money is the paving stone for better feelings. If a man is willing to spend money for you, it doesn't mean he will love you. But one thing is for sure, if a man usually spends money like water, and he wants to haggle over every ounce of you, he will not love you! Although it seems very vulgar and snobbish to talk about money all the time in my relationship, I can really know whether you really like him when it comes to spending money. Don't think that boys are so slow in feeling. In fact, they have a reputation for who is right and who is wrong. A boy who cares about you would rather save himself than wronged you.
4. Refuse to plan for your future
If a man really loves you, then he will no doubt want to stay with you forever and look forward to your future. In order to reassure you, he will not only make many promises of eternal love to you, but also will never just talk about it, and will prove it to you with practical actions. If a man has already assessed you as his lover for the second half of his life, he will be happy to bring you to meet his relatives and friends, hoping that you can integrate into his life as soon as possible.
When a man doesn't have you in his heart, you can choose to give up, or you can choose to try to retrieve his love. It depends on your values and emotional needs.
If you think the relationship between you has been irretrievable, or you no longer want to be with him, then you can choose to give up. You can choose to face this fact frankly, and then move on to find your own happiness.
If you still love him and want to reconnect, you can try to retrieve his love. This requires some effort and time, but as long as the emotional foundation between you is still there, it is possible to get back together.
No matter whether you choose to give up or take back, you need to respect the other party's decision, and don't be too persistent to let yourself suffer more damage.
