Now the house price is really very high, especially in some first tier cities. The house price puts a lot of pressure on men. But the parents of the woman are right to consider this. After all, marriage is about two people living together for a long time, without a home of their own. It feels like rootless grass in this city. You not only have no sense of belonging, but also live with such pressure every day, and your mood will be very bad.
Many girls, especially young women, may not pay much attention to the problem of housing before marriage. Indeed, we love and marry because of this man, not because he has a house. But the marriage really gets together, and the house is really crucial.
If the woman really has a special home and the man really feels unable to leave, then the house can also be discussed together. If the woman also holds such an attitude that she can't get married without a house, then you should try your best to buy a house. Don't think women are materialistic, and don't think women's parents are unreasonable. After you get married, you will understand the importance of the house.
First of all, it needs to be clear that buying a house is a major decision, which needs to take into account the family's economic situation, living habits, future planning and other factors. Therefore, it is unwise to reject this relationship just because the man cannot afford a house.
If the woman's parents do not agree with the man to buy a house, the following methods can be considered:
1. Communication: fully communicate with the woman's parents to understand their concerns and concerns, and try to find a mutually acceptable solution. Sometimes, parents may only worry about their daughter's future, rather than firmly oppose her lover.
2. Build trust: let the parents of the woman feel your sincerity and efforts, and establish a trust relationship. You can try to visit many times and let the parents of the woman know your character and character.
3. Waiting for time: If the woman's parents still firmly oppose, they may need to wait for a while to allow more time and space for things to develop. However, don't give up, stick to your beliefs, and try to keep in touch with the woman's parents to understand their ideas and opinions.
4. Seek external help: If none of the above methods can solve the problem, you can consider seeking external help, such as introducers, lawyers, etc. They may provide some professional advice and suggestions to help solve this problem.
The most important thing is to respect the wishes and choices of the woman and not abandon her because of her family background and financial situation. Love is a matter for two people, which requires that both parties are willing to work hard and struggle for each other, rather than being forced to give up because of external factors.
If the boyfriend can't buy a house with all the money and the parents don't agree to get married, the relationship can continue. The most important thing is to look at your attitude. At this time, you can play the role of a regulator in the middle. Because for many men, it is impossible to buy a house in full at the time of marriage, just a few years after graduation.
1、 Look at your attitude
For every woman, if she wants to marry a boy, it is useless for her parents to oppose her no matter how much. Although many parents strongly oppose this marriage, they also do not want their girlfriend to marry someone from a poor family. If they really identify with this person, they must go on with each other. So in this case, the best way is to listen to your own inner voice, and also consult your friends. Xiao Bian thinks that it is very difficult for a boy to buy a house at full price. Many people still pay the mortgage after marriage.
2、 Consider the man's family
If two people really love each other, they must have courage. At this time, we can solve more obstacles, for many male friends. You need to get a lot of betrothal gifts when you get married, and in some places, the price of betrothal gifts is very high. If you still need to buy a full house and write your daughter's name, it will definitely make the man's family feel great pressure. So in this case, you can consider the man's feelings and his family's economic situation. If he is not really rich, don't put too much pressure on him.
For a relationship, many people are facing the situation of breaking up because they can't buy a house or get betrothal gifts. If your parents don't agree to divorce, you can also consider whether you really want to go on with this person. Although housing has now become a necessary condition, sometimes it does not have to be all the obstacles. You can also tell your parents what you really think.
