Many friends want to participate in the class reunion, but sometimes the class reunion turns sour after a long time. It has become a place to flatter, boast, and satirize in the Ming Dynasty. All kinds of life styles are reflected in the class reunion. If you don't want to attend this kind of reunion, you may as well, but how can you refuse to let everyone hate it? Here are three ways to decline.
1. To refuse to return to the law
It means that you first show that you really want to go and ask the other party what the specific time is. The other party tells you the specific time. You are disappointed. It's a pity that the time conflicts that day. This is to refuse and welcome, at least from the attitude you want to go.
For example, the other party said, "Our classmates will have a reunion this summer."
"Really, I've been looking forward to such a day. Is it fixed? Where is it fixed?"
"The time is fixed, July 10th."
After the person tells you the time, you can find a reason that you can't control to decline, such as going back to your parents' home, or going on a business trip. In this way, people won't say anything about you.
2. Preemptive law
If you know in advance when and where you are scheduled, you just don't want to go. You come up and say, "That's great. Except when it's not possible, I have no problems at any other time, and I can be there on call." After you say that, the other party happens to be scheduled at that time. Then you come up with an objective reason, which is called the preemptive method. It's better not to specify the time period to a certain day, but to specify it to a certain period, which will make the other party feel more real.
3. Cushion dragging method
Prepare in advance. I really have something to do that day, but if I can squeeze the time, I still have to go. I can try to get to the scene in advance. This is still because you have this heart. You put your attitude and heart in place, and everyone won't say anything about you. For example, when the party is almost over, I send you a message:
"It's almost over. Have you finished your work?"
"Our boss really hates it tonight. He added another batch of work to me, and it is estimated that it will be ten o'clock. If you haven't finished, I will take a taxi. If you have finished, don't wait for me. Let's get together again later."
In fact, if you don't want to go, you can directly express your attitude and go as soon as you can, but there is no way to catch up. Let's make an appointment again later. That's right and beautiful.
So in the future, you will also have a party that you don't want to attend. The above three methods can not only save everyone's face, but also make yourself comfortable.
