There are four manifestations of women destroying families. Women often have a crucial influence in marriage. A good woman can not only bring happiness to a man, but also make a family prosperous. Bad women will not only destroy men but also make the whole family decline. Here are 4 ways women destroy their families.
1. Be vain and like to see others' opinions
Such a woman will not live well with you. She is very easy to be influenced by outsiders and change her own behavior. Such women like vanity, so they will do many things unrelated to life for the sake of face, especially care about other people's views, and often put pressure on people around them.
When a man is with such a woman, he will feel a lot of pressure because she will do many meaningless things for vanity and will be very brave. In the end, you will suffer if she fails to meet her requirements.
2. Like to complain and envy others
Once people fall into complaining, life is doomed to be difficult. Some women always complain that life is unfair to them, and they don't like to find reasons from themselves. Such a woman is full of negative energy and likes to complain, which will make people around her full of negative energy.
Moreover, such a woman often likes to be jealous of others, and can't see how they are doing. Once they are doing well, it is difficult for her to balance her heart, and eventually she will send her complaints to her family, which can be said to be a tragedy.
3. Too much desire, but very lazy action
Such a woman has many desires and demands, but she is unwilling to pay for it. So the final result is obvious that women will put pressure on their men and keep asking them for something, which often makes men feel bored. Good feelings are paid by both parties. One party's shameless demand often makes the other party feel cold.
A woman who has too many desires but is lazy in action will cause a lot of burdens to her family.
4. No principle, no responsibility
Women are easily seduced if they have no principles. Nowadays, there are too many temptations in this society, especially women, who will encounter too many temptations. Once they don't know how to refuse and are tempted without principles, they will be prone to accidents. If you marry such a woman and go home, the man's head is green grassland. It's better not to marry. In the end, I don't know whether the child is my own. Isn't that sad?
Four manifestations of women destroying families
1. Women who do not care about their families will make men feel tired, because they will only focus on their work. They will not care about their families and will not care about men's work and mood. This will make men feel tired, and as time goes by, they will make him want to escape from this home.
2. Unfaithful women will disappoint men because they are not filial to their parents and parents in law, which will make men hate them and will never want to associate with them again, because they do not understand filial piety.
3. Women who do not know how to be grateful will make men feel cold, because they will only take what they have and will not repay what men have done for them. This will make men feel cold, and as time goes by, they will make them want to escape from this home.
4. Women who do not know how to cherish will make men feel desperate because they do not know how much a man has paid for them, nor will they know how to cherish his kindness to them, which will make him want to escape from this home.
After marriage, women have these four manifestations. It seems that they are "ordinary", but they actually destroy their marriage. No wonder men.
1、 Always accuse and complain about her husband, deny and belittle him
In life, many wives generally criticize and complain about their husbands, deny men's ability everywhere, and devalue each other. Some of these women just want to vent their emotions, while others think it will spur their husbands, but they don't know that it will only aggravate men's rebellious psychology and make men more and more negative.
For a man, he prefers encouragement, affirmation and praise. Only when a wife can do these things can her husband become more excellent, more willing to pay and change, and more devoted and attached to this relationship. Women who choose to blame and deny will eventually exhaust men's enthusiasm and ruin their marriage.
2、 Overinterference in men's work and social life
In life, some women as wives have a strong sense of control and lack a sense of security for their feelings. So I always want to control everything of men, and I always like to point fingers at men's work, and intervene with the psychology of supervision and supervision. I am more careful and vigilant about men's social interaction, and I always want to "help" my husband distinguish friends from friends, and eliminate potential enemies for myself.
For men, women's involvement in their own work and social life is a serious violation and a harm to men's independence. If men sincerely accept that women's wisdom and judgment are good, otherwise men will only become more and more eager to break away from the control of such women, even if it is achieved by breaking away from marriage.
3、 He always likes to make his family dirty, regardless of men's face and dignity
Men always value their own face, just as women always care about their own face. But some women don't care about men's psychology. They always like to publicize their husbands' shortcomings, mistakes, and debts. They hope that everyone can stand in the same position with themselves to criticize their husbands.
This behavior of women may initially have a certain deterrent effect on men, which will make men have scruples, but over time, men will only become more reckless in their constant boredom, and more aggressive in their treatment of women and marriage.
4、 Both inside and outside are stagnant, even falling back
In the face of marriage, many women feel that it is a once and for all thing. As long as they get married, the relationship will be in full control, so they don't need to manage their own internal and external. As a result, these women did not make any progress after marriage. They had more and more internal shortcomings, and they also showed the worst aspects of their appearance to their husbands.
Marriage does not mean that a relationship is completed, it represents a more serious beginning. Even if a woman is married, even if the husband and wife love each other no matter how much, they must know how to constantly improve their inner and maintain the external beauty, which will not let the relationship fade. If a woman indulges herself after marriage, she will give up her attraction and indirectly destroy the emotional foundation in marriage.
After marriage, women have these four manifestations, which is equivalent to self destructing marriage. No wonder men.
Therefore, when a marriage can not bring happiness to women, women may wish to first examine their own shortcomings, reflect on their own performance, and don't ruin the marriage without knowing it.
Marriage is not a simple thing, good and bad are affected by many factors. If both husband and wife do not understand the internal laws of marriage and do not know what to do and what not to do in marriage, then this marriage will come to an end sooner or later.
Especially for emotional women, as wives, women are far more capable of controlling marriage than men, and can decide the future of marriage. A woman who is good at managing marriage and knows the internal laws of marriage can often achieve happiness, and a woman who violates these laws will naturally push marriage to the end.
