The most important thing between husband and wife is trust. When there is no trust between husband and wife, the marriage will exist in name only. To continue to live together is to torture each other! Husband and wife can quarrel, even fight. But one side must bow down first after these things happen. This may make the relationship between husband and wife more mature and stable. If there is a cold war because of this, it will not pay off! After all, it is a husband and wife, not an enemy. It is just a matter of tongue touching teeth. If there is distrust between husband and wife, it is quite troublesome. Both parties live in suspicion every day, ask questions when they come home late, ask questions when they have a meal with friends, and live in the process of being questioned every day. They will go crazy after a long time!
Everything needs to show trust and true feelings. If you don't want to leave room for others, a couple who get along with each other like this is a perfect match. They trust each other and can go a long way. Therefore, without trust, there will be no stable marriage and no sense of security. It seems that a tottering Lou Brother is in danger of collapse at any time. If this is really the case, if there is no trust, if there is no burden, if there is nothing to be attached to, then it is really better to choose to break up and live your own life. Or if there is a glimmer of hope, you should do some honest things, and let others know that you really pay or are really good to others, which can earn their trust. In this way, the marriage can be maintained or saved again.
If they can't, they will really take the road of divorce, because separation may make both of them go out from a state of distrust to find a person who can give up their true feelings and provide them with a sense of security. Every family has a difficult lesson to learn. Anyone who doesn't have a small problem can learn from those harmonious families and exchange life experience. If couples don't trust each other, they can solve the problem. The key is to find the source of distrust and solve the problem. Don't choose to escape or aggravate it, and the relationship between husband and wife will be as good as ever.
The married life of husband and wife contains happiness and happiness, which is inseparable from mutual trust. If there is no trust between husband and wife, it will be difficult to continue?
1、 Between husband and wife, you cannot absolutely trust, nor can you absolutely distrust!
When you think about it carefully, absolute trust and absolute distrust between husband and wife are actually wrong in marriage. Absolute trust will make you lose risk awareness and vigilance to your partner. Absolute distrust will greatly reduce the relationship between husband and wife, and the marriage will be prosperous all the way. Advice: trust is important between husband and wife, but you can't trust a person 100%. Speaking of this, it suddenly occurred to me that you should trust him so much. He sold you and you counted his money with a smile. I think that before marriage, trust should be restrained by taking precautions. For example, I don't like you to get too close to people who are talking and laughing, I'm jealous, and you should stay away from them. So as to restrain the other party. Prevent some people from being betrayed and kept in the dark by their partners. Some women just trust their husbands so much that they won't force themselves to despair.
2、 Negative complaints can lead couples into a crisis of trust.
In intimate relationships, there are always conflicts and misunderstandings between husband and wife. When they happen, if one party has a negative attitude, the other half will also be driven. For example, the husband and wife look at the mobile phone, the woman looks at the man's mobile phone, and the man grabs it. The man said impatiently, why are you looking at my mobile phone? Don't you have a mobile phone? Of course, women with personality can't accept men's tone. Moreover, women are always curious. The more men refuse to see it, the more she wants to see it. Then, women who don't look at their husbands' mobile phones will fall into a paranoid state. He thought that there must be a secret in the man's mobile phone. Combined with what he saw, he began to doubt whether the man was cheating.
3、 Losing trust between husband and wife and becoming strangers is often a precursor to divorce.
Zhang Ailing said: Life is a gorgeous coat covered with ticks, so marriage is a rag covered with ticks. If you want to wear them, you must crush them one by one with trust. Someone asked, what happens when a couple loses trust? From the psychological point of view, loss of trust means the disappearance of certainty, which is the precursor of divorce between husband and wife. It is easy to directly link ordinary events with the worst results. In addition, the experience of many experienced people also tells you that once a husband and wife lose trust, life will be very tired, and this kind of tiredness comes more from the heart.
In my opinion, the foundation of feelings is trust. If couples can't trust each other, there is no need to be together. This is because marriage without mutual trust is torture for both parties. It is better to separate decisively so that both of them can be relieved.
1、 Marriage without mutual trust is torture for both parties
If in a relationship, the husband and wife cannot trust each other, it is torture for both parties to continue together. This is because if mutual trust cannot be achieved, the couple may quarrel because of a little conflict, or directly start a cold war, or even affect their parents, relatives and friends, resulting in conflicts between the two families. In this case, both parties are injured and will not benefit from it. In addition, from a certain point of view, this torture is mostly mental torture, so it will actually hurt people more. When it is serious, it may lead to mental problems, such as becoming absent-minded, absent-minded, irritable, and uncertain.
2、 Decisive separation can release both people
For husband and wife, since they no longer trust each other, it is a relief for both of them to separate decisively. Of course, some people may think that if the husband and wife work hard to restore the relationship as before, then life can go on. Indeed, if we can do this, it is a good way, but it is difficult to do something completely. More couples are likely to make do with it. For them, this distrust still exists, but is buried in their hearts. However, this will lead to another problem. If the husband and wife are stimulated by some external factors again, this distrust will break out between the husband and wife, making their relationship broken again. Therefore, in my opinion, if the husband and wife can separate decisively at the beginning, they can also extricate themselves from this distrust relationship earlier and let each other start their own new lives.
To sum up, I think it is unnecessary for couples to continue together if they cannot trust each other.
