In our life, we sometimes encounter kinship kidnappings, and relatives always say, "I'm all for you, why can't you listen?" What should we do when we encounter such kinship kidnappings? How on earth can you refute without hurting the other party's face, and at the same time make yourself happy? If you want to untie yourself easily, please remember the following three moves.
2. Separate growth value from experience value
We still give each other face and let them feel that we still respect the experience value they give us. However, compared with us, the growth problem at our age today deserves more attention. In other words, the growth value is greater than the experience value. We can still compliment her and say, "Auntie, you didn't listen to others' lessons in those years, and you have stumbled for so many years. Although you may feel disappointed, I envy you. Anyway, you are the object of my envy.", Then let's talk about our own opinion: "I have done enough research in my own field, and will not fall so easily. You should have confidence in me, and I will also become the pride of the family." When we compliment each other like this, we explain our own opinion, so that the other party knows that growth value is important to us, and the other party generally cannot refute it.
Therefore, when encountering family kidnapping in the future, "I am for your own good. This is all our experience. I have walked more bridges than you have walked." There is no need to listen to him so much. Use the above three moves to solve each other easily, and at the same time, you can free yourself.
