Is it reasonable to say that whether a family is rich or not depends mainly on the daughter-in-law? I don't think that's reasonable.
Whether a family is rich or not depends not only on one person, but also on both husband and wife. Only if one of them is very powerful, can one make his family rich.
As the saying goes, there is a rake outside to earn money, and there should be a box at home to save money. It means that men are the main force of making money in the family. They are mainly responsible for making money, which reflects the diligence; Women are mainly responsible for collecting and saving money, and can't waste it, which reflects frugality.
Although this sentence is somewhat different from the habits of modern people, the truth of diligence and thrift is very practical.
If a man in a family is very capable, he can stand on his own side and make a great achievement; The woman in the family, starting a business with him, has become a good assistant of him. Such a family can become rich, and the husband and wife are united, and their benefits will cut off the gold.
If the woman in the family is a strong woman, she is very capable and can make her family rich through her hard work. At this time, men either become women's helpers or have their own careers.
Such families are generally relatively stable, and there are reasons why they can become rich. Because both sides are working hard, can they not be rich?
If one of them can earn a lot of money. But on the other hand, they spend money recklessly. So. Because of the serious waste, the family will not get rich.
Therefore, the prosperity of a family still depends on the efforts of two people. If you rely on one side alone, then this capable person is very hard.
Therefore, the saying "whether a family is rich or not depends mainly on the daughter-in-law" is unreasonable. Men should not put the burden of making money on their daughter-in-law. Since ancient times, men are the main force in the family?
Many women and many people have been complaining that their husbands cannot earn money and are unlucky. In fact, there are many reasons! I don't know if you have ever thought about changing your thinking and wealth will follow.
1、 Women must remember that the husband who is in charge will be convinced by the husband who is in pain. Husband is used to hurt. Don't always think about treating him, and don't discuss how bad your husband is when you are with other women.
2、 You can't change him, you can influence him. A man's nature is lazy, but his nature is not very clean. You can't always ask him to do something when he comes home. Let him do even the smallest things, which will distract men from working outside and increase the pressure on their minds.
3、 Don't be busy leaving home when he comes home. When he comes home, he most wants to see you and hear your voice. He wants to communicate with you, not listen to your nagging.
4、 Women should not take doubt as their own judgment. Some things are not what you imagine. It is a heavy blow to men and also a lack of confidence in yourself to judge your own men in the way you imagine.
5、 Women should not be hedgehogs under any circumstances. If women often become hedgehogs, men will not take the initiative to get close to you. Hedgehogs and dogs cannot fall in love, just like fire and grass.
6、 Women should not complain about their men, let alone scold their men. The man who complains about himself is more unsatisfied, and the man who scolds him is more regardless of the distance. The force is mutual, and the man who often scolds himself will get the opposite force.
7、 Love is like quicksand, men can't catch it. Women should never try to catch a man. The one who catches a man is far less secure than the one who gets a man. Men live not only for money, but more importantly for face.
8、 Women should pay attention to the fact that the first thing to love a man is to love his father and mother. Without his parents, where can you fall in love with him? How could he show up to let you love? Don't compare your parents in law's attitude towards you with your parents' attitude towards you.
The family and everything are prosperous, and the wife is virtuous and blessed. The happiness of a family depends on the hostess. If you look at the hostess's mental outlook, you can almost judge the current situation of her family!
A good wife makes a good family. Good women prosper three generations, and bad women destroy three generations. As the "fresh blood" of a family, if the wife is virtuous, the family will be better off. On the contrary, it is like a drop of ink dripping into a glass of water, which will hurt one piece.
Unqualified wives, though dissatisfied with the status quo, only expect men to make progress to improve. Once their expectations fail, they only have endless abuse and complaints. Such a home not only has no temperature at all, but also has "tuyeres" everywhere, which is prone to man-made disasters and natural disasters!
On the contrary, a good wife knows that a good family needs a good life. It is not enough to rely on her husband alone. She will make her own contribution as much as possible. The husband and wife worked together to push and pull a home uphill. More laughter and warmth at home, no gaps, complaints disappear, always better and more prosperous. The family and everything are prosperous, and the wife is virtuous and blessed.
The wife has a large pattern, but the husband goes far. Your parents decide your starting point, and your wife decides your ending point. In the second half of her life, if she wants to be good, she must marry a good man. But in fact, what kind of woman a man marries is also very important to him, and even affects his life direction. Although the wife can only stay behind her husband for many times, her role is like a gas station or a beacon, always providing power and navigation for the husband in the right direction.
A good wife can seriously manage marriage, understand her husband, and care about his work and life; Always find the advantages of her husband, give timely encouragement and comfort when encountering setbacks, and also give reference suggestions; We can keep the same growth direction with our husband and follow him all the way, so that he can see each other no matter how far he has gone. Whether rich or poor, you can smile when you look at each other. When a man meets such a lover, what can he ask for? It is another kind of success to live a happy life even if you can't be rich and noble.
It is said that the husband is the backbone of a family, and that the woman is the external "facade" and internal geomancy and strength of a family. She decides whether there is a clean and tidy living environment in a home; Whether the husband at home has enough energy and confidence to fight for his career; Whether children can grow up happily, follow the right path and seek good things.
Women have tenacity, optimism, gentleness and kindness, which are the most valuable qualities. As long as you give her a reliable good man, she can be a good wife and mother! In order to match a good wife, a man should also be good enough. He may not make a lot of money, but he must support his family; Not necessarily humorous and romantic, but will love pain!
