The relationship between two people is like a balance. As long as one party has a problem, it will lose its balance. Even if we try to maintain it, we will pay the price sooner or later! The two people should respect each other, tolerate each other, and think more about each other's positions. Only in this way can the relationship that they have worked together be long and sweet! Emotion is that it is difficult for one person to make a lasting effort if two people work together to maintain it.
In real life, there is no so-called perfect emotion, only the process of unremitting pursuit for perfect emotion with their own sense of responsibility. Those imaginary romances and perfections will become indifferent with the passing of days. Real feelings are based on mutual trust, mutual responsibility and mutual compromise. They can entertain each other in happy times and help each other in painful days. As long as two people can stick to their common sense of responsibility for feelings, this relationship can last for as long as it lasts. The long-term existence of feelings requires two people to keep pace.
Time is the best proof of everything. At the beginning, it's OK for a person to take the initiative, but if the other person always ignores you like this and doesn't take care of this feeling, as time goes by, people will be unbearable, and you will slowly get away from him, and this relationship will gradually fall into ruin. Of course, when two people are together, there is not so much mutual affection. Most people are moved by one person to let the other know how good you are. If you love him, you can persist until the day he changes. In love, this is also a kind of happiness.
No matter men or women, losing themselves in love is very easy to make the relationship unsustainable. Mature love relationships are two people who attract each other, not just fawning on each other. In the eyes of mature people who know how to cherish, you will not always take the initiative, while in the eyes of immature people, you will gradually lose your value in their hearts. In love, if it's just a beginning, it doesn't matter who starts it. But if we want to go on, we must form a virtuous circle to maintain it.
No matter you are a couple or a friend, it is definitely not possible to manage feelings by yourself, and this kind of feelings cannot go far. It is impossible for one party to pay for the other party's treasure. After a long time, the beneficiary will become a habit and feel taken for granted. How the feelings are not worth having only depending on the efforts of one party.
How to maintain family harmony
1. Communication is very important. There is no denying that many problems are caused by poor communication. Family harmony lies in daily lubrication. Take advantage of a meal, a little time before bed, and talk about something.
2. Wake up good memories. When life tends to be dull, we should let the past continue to play its role. Looking back at the past days together, the sweetness and hard work will make each other more firm in their faith and cherish everything they have now.
3. Understanding, support and respect. It is my duty to pay attention to, understand, tolerate and help each other, remember each other's birthday, occasionally send a bouquet of flowers, write a marriage diary as a daily life, and try to add some romance and care to the marriage life.
4. Examine your own shortcomings. Everyone is not perfect, has advantages and disadvantages, and has their own views, so they are real. The growth of self personality in the relationship between husband and wife is our lifelong lesson! And how deeply the husband and wife "mirror" each other and "feel" each other, how deeply the husband and wife "nourish" each other!
How to maintain the relationship between husband and wife
1. Mutual trust
Trust is the most basic element to maintain the relationship between husband and wife. You should learn to trust each other so as to maintain the relationship between husband and wife. Don't be paranoid all day long. If you don't even have the minimum trust, your husband and wife will almost come to an end. You should believe that your vision is correct.
2. Mutual appreciation and praise
Husband and wife should learn to appreciate each other, not always staring at each other's shortcomings, but learn to appreciate her (his) advantages, and give praise from time to time, which is conducive to maintaining a good relationship between husband and wife.
3. Respect each other's privacy
Husband and wife should respect each other's privacy and choices. Don't impose your own will on the other party, and restrict the freedom of the other party. That will only make the feelings between each other plummet.
4. Mutual understanding
When you quarrel, you should understand each other, not just think about yourself. Everyone has their own difficulties, so that they can quarrel with each other. If it is one person's fault, then the other person should not be always aggressive, and should learn to understand, so as to maintain a good relationship between husband and wife.
