According to your description, This is a common saying: "Never work in front of acquaintances "It should be said that there is a certain truth in this sentence. It means that relatives and brothers should pay their dues, so it is better not to go to work or do business with relatives and friends together. Because if two people are relatively familiar friends or relatives with blood ties, going to do business or work together often causes interpersonal or economic conflicts, which may eventually lead to Cause bad consequences. To be specific, we can analyze specific problems.
It should be admitted that whether relatives or friends are going to do business or work together, because the relationship between them is so familiar, whether they should be selfless or worldly wise, whether they should consider economic benefits or interpersonal relationships and feelings first, these problems are often tangled, causing great trouble. We can analyze it from both positive and negative aspects.
If you work together and do things well, you may feel embarrassed when you plan to talk about money, but it is obviously inappropriate not to discuss salary or money. If you do something badly, if your acquaintances criticize you and punish you, they will worry about affecting the feelings of relatives and friends. But if they do not criticize and punish you, it is obviously unfair and unreasonable. Therefore, it is easy to cause contradictions if one comes and two goes.
Therefore, it is necessary to distinguish the relationship between work and private affairs. Friends are private affairs, while working and cooperation are public affairs. Do not mess up on these matters, which will make both people unhappy.
Because strangers know how to be grateful, while acquaintances think you deserve it.
People in the world are becoming more and more indifferent and indifferent. When you help an acquaintance more kindly, the more you help him, the less he will appreciate you. Instead, he will think you are right. When one day you stop helping him, he will feel that you are not loyal and will not help him even a little. It is your fault to say so. You can only smile helplessly. Even if you treat him well, he doesn't pay attention to you, but one day you treat him badly, he remembers you. Do you really want to help such an acquaintance? It is annoying for you that you have suffered a loss but failed to get a good result. I don't know how to be grateful, but I always dislike you. Such acquaintances can't help.
Strangers are different. If you help him once, he will feel grateful. If you help him many times, he will also be grateful. Because you are only strangers all the time, and have not established any feelings. If you help him, he will thank you as a stranger. He thinks you are really good to him as a stranger, and he will be grateful to you. If one day you can't help him, he won't be upset because you didn't help him. He just thinks that helping him is a kind of feeling, not a duty. Such strangers make you feel happy, because your efforts are finally rewarded, at least they know how to appreciate you and know how to affirm your efforts, at least they will not make you feel so tired. You are really willing to help strangers, but not to help acquaintances, because strangers know better than acquaintances. At least they are better at being human. The poor are always too cool.
So you'd rather help strangers than acquaintances, because strangers are more emotional than acquaintances.
