It is believed that many people have encountered such a problem when they asked you how to refuse humorously, but they are afraid of hurting others when they refuse directly, so they need to refuse politely. Here's how to refuse humorously when asked by the opposite sex.
Said he was busy
Of course, the best way to refuse a person is to say that he has something to do at that time. It's better to be specific about what he wants to do. It has nothing to do with him. Otherwise, we can make an appointment another day. In this way, the other party will generally understand you and promise to another day.
Direct rejection
If you don't like this person and don't want to have any contact with him in the future, you can refuse him directly and show your own attitude. Of course, this method may hurt people, but it is the most effective. It is recommended only when you completely dislike the other party.
Refuse with a smile
If you just did something with the other party, you said you wanted to go back. If you don't want to go, you can smile and say, I have something to do when I go home. I've received your offer and will invite you to dinner when I'm free that day.
Don't refuse immediately
If you still want to make friends with each other, then when you refuse, you must not immediately refuse. It's better to be tactful. For example, where he invited you to play, you can say it's great. I've always wanted to play there, but I never had a chance. It's also a pity this time, because something can't be done.
No opening method
Sometimes if you feel embarrassed to say no to the opposite sex, you might as well use body language. For example, if he is right in front of you and invites you to go somewhere, you might as well shake your head slightly, and the other party will easily know your idea, and the cheeky person will probably not ask you to go again.
Ingenious transfer method
If you feel bad about rejecting the other party head-on, you might as well use circuitous tactics. Whether it is to change the topic or for no reason, it is mainly to use the tone change to gently and persistently suggest that you will never agree with the other party. Such a smart person can know at once that you are not willing to agree to his request, and it is likely that you will quit when faced with difficulties.
How to politely refuse an invitation from someone you don't like
The key is what invitation.
1、 Don't refuse at once: refusing at once will make people think you are a cold and heartless person, and even think you have prejudice against him.
2、 Don't refuse easily: Sometimes when you refuse others easily, you will lose many opportunities to help others and gain friendship.
3、 Don't refuse in anger: Refusing others in anger is easy to hurt others in language and makes people feel that you have no sympathy.
4、 Don't refuse casually: If you refuse too casually, others will think that you don't attach importance to him, which is likely to cause resentment.
5、 Don't refuse mercilessly: To refuse mercilessly is to be indifferent in expression, stern in tone, and have no room for accommodation. It will be very embarrassing and even turn against each other.
6、 Don't refuse arrogantly: no one likes to be close to a person who is arrogant and disrespectful. What's more, when he asks you for help and you refuse with an arrogant attitude, others cannot accept it.
7、 Be able to refuse politely: If you can explain your unavoidable difficulties politely and refuse politely, others will still be moved by your sincerity.
8、 Refuse with a smile: When you refuse, you should be able to smile with a solemn attitude, so that others can feel your respect and politeness for him. Even if you refuse, you can also accept.
9、 There should be an alternative refusal: I can't help you with what you asked me for. I will help you in another way. In this way, he will thank you very much.
10、 Rejection with a way out: At the same time, if you can provide other ways to help him think of another way out, it actually helps him.
11、 Helpful rejection: that is to say, although you refuse, you can help him in other aspects. This is a kind of compassionate and intelligent rejection.
How to refuse a date
The way for the man to decline the date
1. How to refuse a date? there can never be too much deception in war. When the other party asked you out, tell her that she was busy today. At the same time, we made an appointment with her for the next time. When it came to the next appointment, we pretended that we had something urgent to deal with. I'm really sorry we couldn't keep the appointment. This kind of gentle refusal does not make the other party feel embarrassed. After a long time, the other party will naturally understand that you do not want to keep the appointment, and will also quit.
2. Transfer target. If you don't want to go on a date, you can first ask about the content of the date, such as the other party's appointment to see a play or a movie. You can say that you have seen the play or movie, or that you are not interested in the play or movie. Then, you can suggest some activities that the other party is not interested in, and decline the other party by changing the target, so that everyone can step down.
3. Get help. If the other party invites you on the holiday, you can deduce that your family is used to having parties on the holiday, or moving out of a certain relative to come from afar and go there soon, so you can't keep the appointment. Most people know the truth of "no separation of relatives", so it won't be difficult for you.
4. Play it by ear. According to the place of appointment proposed by the other party, adapt to circumstances. If the other party suggests that you are in a quiet place, you can express that you like to have fun with your friends, so that the other party will realize that you do not want to go to the appointment, thus losing the enthusiasm for dating.
The way for the woman to decline the man's date
1. The law of malingering. Falsification is a woman's' killer weapon ', which means that she is unwell and needs rest. If the other party wants to see you because of your 'illness', you can thank him for his kindness, and explain that you are sick and not suitable for hospitality. Wait until you are ready.
2. Procrastination. It is difficult to get out of work because you are busy with your work. You can wait until you are not busy to date. When the other party dates again, you still say that you are busy, and even your spare time life is occupied. If you procrastinate like this, the other party will be disappointed, and the knowledgeable person will not pester you anymore.
3. Digression. There is no excuse. You might as well go to a date first, and talk about things with the other party for a while, so that the other party feels unable to talk about them. Then, when the other party is in high spirits or has nothing to say, he suddenly puts forward that he has something urgent to do and has to stop the appointment. Although the other party feels disappointed, he can't say anything.
4. Double meaning method. Let the other party know that you are a very friendly person, but recently your close friend was in a bad mood and asked you to accompany her often, so he could not deal with any other appointments.
5. Suggestion method. When the other party proposes a date, show the other party that you like the excitement rather than the tryst of two people, and suggest that you find some friends to get together. If the other party agrees with your proposal, it will be difficult for him to achieve the purpose of the appointment. If he does not agree, he has to express regret.
How to refuse others' invitation
First of all, the people who refuse to invite us to dinner are not very familiar. Since these people are so shy, you don't have to face up and tell them what you really think. Don't die to save face and suffer. This method is suitable for friends who are not familiar with or have ordinary relationships.
If you have been patient, he will go further and ask you to have dinner every time. What's more, if you form such a bad habit, once you don't invite him to dinner, he will say you are not, which will damage your reputation. If you refuse from the very beginning, there will be no such malpractice. Let him see your principled side. Dare to face the tension brought by saying "no", and the boundary of health is established after "no".
In fact, in addition to friends with ordinary relationships, there are also some good friends who often ask for invitations. At this time, everyone will be very embarrassed. They are not willing to invite guests frequently, and they are afraid of offending friends and making relations stiff. In this case, most of them use the method of tactful refusal.
For example: Recently, money is a little tight. Scholars can solve my urgent need. If you become rich in the future, you will definitely make up for it. But if you become rich in the future, don't forget me. You can give back to the other person in the same way. When the other party wins a success or bonus, you can also ask for a treat to let him experience the difficulties you have experienced.
