How can you save your girlfriend from disappointment? You can sincerely apologize, send gifts, be reasonable, and ask your friends for help. These methods are all possible. The main thing is to see why your girlfriend is disappointed, find the root of the contradiction, and then fundamentally solve the problem. Only in this way can we get results. The girlfriend's disappointment in you is caused by multiple reasons. It may be that you did something wrong, but you didn't realize it and didn't apologize to her. She didn't get the desired result, so she gradually disappointed you. It may also be that your girlfriend has been wronged at work, or has suffered setbacks outside, and wants to seek your comfort, but you have not noticed her emotional changes, and did not give her the comfort she wanted, so she is disappointed with you. So the most important thing is to find out why your girlfriend is disappointed, and then find specific solutions.
Give gifts to your girlfriend If your girlfriend is a person who attaches great importance to the sense of ceremony, it will play a great role to give a gift at this time, because once you give a gift, she will feel your sincerity and can feel that you value her. He was disappointed with you at first, but when you send a gift, your girlfriend's mood may be relieved and her impression of you will also be improved. Therefore, you can ease the relationship between the two people by giving gifts, but only if you have not committed a mistake of principle, and the conflict between you two is just a trivial matter, everything can be discussed, If you make a principled mistake and your girlfriend is disappointed with you, you can't solve the problem just by giving gifts.
Apologize to your girlfriend If your girlfriend is disappointed with you, it is because you have done something wrong. You know you have done something wrong, but because of face, you are unwilling to apologize or bow down. In a love relationship, a girl is emotional. She hopes to be valued by boys, cared for and loved by them, and that you can realize your responsibilities and be humble in everything. But if you know that you have done something wrong, but don't know how to apologize, it is normal for your girlfriend to be disappointed with you after a long time. At this time, it is probably the best way to make up for the relationship between two people to find the right opportunity to sincerely apologize to her girlfriend. Sincere attitude can influence her and change her attitude.
If you have been with your girlfriend for a long time, you also have a certain understanding of her friends and have contact information. At this time, a good way is to go to your girlfriend's friends and ask them to help you say good things about you in front of your girlfriend. At this time, other people's words can play a great role in restoring your impression in your girlfriend's mind.
If you can't figure out why your girlfriend is disappointed with you, you should reflect on yourself and find problems from yourself. Do you have male chauvinism? Are you a straight man? Are you not taking good care of her? These may be the reasons for your girlfriend's disappointment. When you find your own problems after self-examination, you can think of any solutions to any problems and change yourself, so that your girlfriend can see your efforts and the relationship between the two can be repaired.
My girlfriend is totally disappointed with me. What should I do?
1、 Express your sincerity and let her know your attitude.
Generally, what can make a girl completely disappointed is not because of one thing, but the result of accumulated dissatisfaction after reaching the peak, but only one thing is sure to be the "trigger".
Therefore, the first thing to do is to sincerely apologize to the woman for the "fuse" incident. You can directly ask a girl to meet you and explain things clearly. If the other party refuses to meet, you can choose to express it by phone or WeChat. In short, you should show 100 pieces of sincerity to express your regret and regret.
At the same time, give the other party enough time to let her vent her dissatisfaction. Do not interrupt and explain when a girl is venting her emotions. When she has finished speaking, you can make necessary explanations about the past and say your expectations for the future. I hope she can give you a chance;
2、 Take action and say goodbye to the "not good enough self".
To save a girl's heart, attitude and language alone are not enough. More often, it depends on a person's change. After all, actions are more honest than words.
If the other party is disappointed because you don't want to make progress, you can't get forgiveness from the other party because you say "definitely change" but act like drinking, dining and playing games every day. The best way is to reduce the number of dinners, stay away from games, and make some achievements in work.
Therefore, "your change" is very important whether you can recover the other party. Of course, this kind of change is not intended to restore feelings or temporary changes, but to know from the bottom of my heart that I was wrong, and then to sincerely say goodbye to my former bad self.
3、 Mobilize "resources" to let her know your changes
If a girl is completely disappointed in you, she will naturally pay less and less attention to you. So, although you are getting better, she may not know it.
If you report your progress to her every day, it may be a little "Wang Po sells melons and boasts", which may make her even more upset with you. In fact, you can choose to change silently for a period of time. When you see the results, let your common friend talk about your changes with her. The effect will be better.
After all, many times we praise ourselves 100 times, which is not as convincing as others' praise of you once. Therefore, mobilize your friends' resources and timely "convey" your good.
4、 Anyway, respect her decision
We can easily hurt a person, but we cannot easily retrieve a wounded heart. Therefore, while recovering, we should also make full psychological preparations.
The best outcome is that you change, the other party accepts, and everyone is happy. Of course, another possibility is that no matter what efforts you make, the other party has completely given up,
If the result is the latter, please respect the other party's decision. After all, you have tried your best to save her, and there will be no regret in this relationship. What's more, your efforts have turned you into a better person, and even in the near future, you will meet a more suitable person!
Your girlfriend said it very frankly. If you want to save it, at least you should change your current situation, that is, whether you are working or making money. To meet her requirements.
In addition, you have worked hard. Even if you work hard, your girlfriend still doesn't want to be with you, which means that she has been extremely disappointed with you and feels that you will not reach her expected goal. So she feels that she will not be happy with a man like you, because she must have a good job at least to find a man. She must earn stable money, have a good income, and have a car and a house.
Another thing she said, she said you can't afford what she wants in the future, since you can't afford it. Then give up. I think the chance that you want to save her is really very, very low.
Therefore, people should be self aware. They should look for a girlfriend of whatever ability they have. Since your girlfriend looks down on you so much, don't look for her humbly anymore. She will be happy with whoever can give her happiness. If it's yours, it's yours. If it's not yours, don't try to force it. So have confidence in yourself. I believe I can do it in the future. I have to make a career for her and let her repent.
There are all good women in the world. Why do you love a flower. Although it is time to talk about marriage, if she can break up with you for this reason, it means that this woman is not sincere to you. Maybe she will break up with you now that she has found the boy she loves. Because people have a comparison, she thinks that the man is better than you, and that will definitely abandon you. Such a girl will never be satisfied, so if she doesn't follow you, maybe you can find something better than her.
