How to distinguish the relationship between an ambiguous relationship and a girlfriend? That's very simple. When you are in an ambiguous relationship with a woman, she may have many physical contacts with you. Maybe you feel very happy, maybe she will appear in your life, but she will not give you a commitment, she will not say forever, she will not say that she will only absorb the love you give, For girlfriend relationship, first of all, she will often say, "I'm your girlfriend, your man, don't be intimate with others." She will always say in your ear that we want to be together forever, and she will fantasize, "I don't know what will happen when we get old. You must be an ugly old man." That is the difference between girlfriend and lover.
Differences between heterosexual friends and ambiguous objects
1、 Friends of the opposite sex only contact each other when they are busy. Ambiguous people want to send messages 24 hours a day
Unlike friends of the same sex, friends of the opposite sex can chat at any time and anywhere. Especially when one of them has a partner, the two need to keep a distance.
But ambiguity is different. Ambiguity is the desire to send messages and chat at any time. Even if one of them has an object, it cannot stop the desire of two people to talk.
In most cases, friends of the opposite sex contact each other when they have something to do, and live their own lives when they have nothing to do. However, ambiguity is something can talk, and often talk late into the night.
2、 Friends of the opposite sex will refuse unreasonable requests, but the ambiguous partner will agree to whatever requests
Friends of the opposite sex are equal. In the process of getting along with each other, they can refuse any unreasonable requirements of the other. Take women for example. In the face of late night invitations, friends of the opposite sex can refuse them directly.
However, the ambiguous object will agree, even if it is late, she will still attend the appointment. In fact, heterosexual friends can't play alone often, but if one party has an object, such behavior should be restrained.
3、 Friends of the opposite sex will keep a distance and know how to measure. Ambiguity is zero distance, and even cross the border
Friends of the opposite sex, both physically and mentally, will maintain an appropriate distance. Simple friends of the opposite sex do not ask each other too much about their personal affairs, nor do they deliberately try to narrow the distance between them.
However, if they are involved in ambiguity, they will always approach each other, both mentally and physically.
Moreover, one of the most obvious points is that two people will inquire about each other's privacy, and even know each other's secrets clearly. In addition, physical contact will also become frequent, and neither of them will feel embarrassed.
There are essential differences between men playing ambiguous and women playing ambiguous
1. Generally, men will grasp the scale, which is fresh, exciting, happy, and most of them have bed and floor fun, but generally they cannot easily affect their own family and career;
2. Men will not easily fall in love with or even fall in love with women who are ambiguous with them. After all, most men want to remain ambiguous and have the opportunity to be lovers, not girlfriends or wives
3. Men will not compare an ambiguous object with their girlfriend or wife, because the real brand is always the real brand, and most rational men are very clear, so men really can separate sex from love.
Women usually linger on or even fall in love with men who are ambiguous with them. Once they are ambiguous for a long time, the relationship will inevitably develop further. Women will fall in love with men who are ambiguous with them, which will even seriously affect their own families. There is a saying that women have sex because of love, so it is much safer for men to play ambiguous than women.
