Apologizing is something that everyone of us will encounter, but how can we apologize in good faith and let the other party accept you? Today, I will teach you three ways to apologize, so that your apology will be more sincere and others will be more willing to accept you.
First of all, we need to understand the wrong way to apologize. Some people know that they are wrong, but when a duck dies, it means that they are stiff lipped, that is, they refuse to admit their mistakes, and that they have to blame a third party for their mistakes. The more we blame a third party for our mistakes, the easier it is for others to think that we can't shoulder the burden, and they will distrust us next time. In addition, some people make perfunctory apologies. The apology is really insincere. Seeing that others refuse to forgive, they say to others, "I apologize, what do you want to do?" This kind of perfunctory apology is also undesirable. So how on earth can an apology be more easily forgiven by others? Let's teach you three moves.
1. Take responsibility and express understanding of the other party's feelings
After all, we were wrong, so we had to show an attitude of being willing to take responsibility in the face of the consequences, first let the other party's emotions ease, and then speak out the understanding of the other party's feelings. We can answer "This is my fault, my fault, and I am willing to take responsibility. I can understand your feelings now, and I can accept whatever decisions you make for me." In this way, the other party will not be too strong, because we have shown weakness.
2. Choose the right time to apologize
If the other party is angry, we don't want to get forgiveness so quickly, but when the other party is calm, we can talk to the other party, and the other party will forgive us more easily. Because the other party is angry, and the aura determines that the other party can't get down. But when the other party is calm, we will take a sincere and sincere attitude of apology, and the other party will be easier to forgive us.
3. Propose plans to remedy and prevent reoffending
We always apologize where we made a mistake, but when we ask where the mistake is, we can't say it or say it wrong. Then the other party will not believe us, and the other party will think that our apology is totally false. We don't realize the real reason why we can prevent reoffending. Therefore, we should put forward a deep understanding of the problem and a remedy plan at the same time, so that the other party can choose to forgive us.
If you want to apologize more sincerely and get forgiveness from others, don't shirk responsibility or make a perfunctory apology. If you can master the above three apology techniques, it will be easier for others to forgive you and trust you more.
