Many friends say that classmate gatherings are disgusting. There are all kinds of classmates at classmate gatherings. If you say something bad, you will make a fool of yourself. If you don't want to make a fool of yourself at a classmate gathering, you must not say these words.
Do you often meet such people in real life? Because of improper remarks and even bossy behavior, the whole atmosphere of the classmate gathering is embarrassed and annoying. If we don't want to be such a person, we must not say the following four words.
1. Showing off the rich and pretending to be rich
People who show off their wealth and pretend to be rich may mix better. Even if they do better than everyone else, there is no need to expose them to others. Some people show off their wealth and show off their famous bags, famous cars, high-end villas, etc. They seem very powerful, but there is no need to show off so obviously. To talk like this is to tell everyone that they are different from you. You are an upper class person. So you can't talk about showing off your wealth and pretending to be rich. If you talk about it, it will be different from everyone, and it will be annoying to everyone.
2. Negative words against others
You can have your own values and choices, but you can't start to attack others' values and choices just because of your values and choices. Everyone has the right to choose, everyone has their own wonderful, do not always take their own values to deny the values of others. For example, if you are an entrepreneur and have earned the first barrel of money in your life, you will look down on other people's office workers when you get together with classmates. Say to the office worker, "What kind of work do you have? If you come to our company, I will arrange a vice president for you." Everyone has his own highlights. Who said that being a man must start a business and must be an official? So we should not take the good side of our own work to deny others' choices and values. It is inhumane to deny and attack others.
3. Uncover the shortcomings of others
Especially when old classmates get together, you mention someone's weakness and expose someone's embarrassing affairs in front of everyone. It may be that these things are things he never wanted others to know in his life. Only because he trusted you and regarded you as a good brother and a good friend, he was willing to tell you. Unexpectedly, you opened them in front of everyone, Don't laugh at him. In addition, it is also not advisable to mention the nickname of "school" at a student gathering. Some students have become big bosses, and even some have become officials. They also mention other people's nicknames, especially those that are unpleasant to hear. Don't mention them.
4. Flattering words
If you hold your thighs, you should say less. If you say more, you will make people think you are too flattering and hypocritical. So we should not give everyone the feeling of hypocrisy, especially those who are particularly snobbish. Keep getting close to the good students, and have no communication with the bad students. People will feel that being with a licking dog is especially humiliating.
Don't say the above four words at a student gathering. If you say them, others will feel sick of you. The atmosphere of the whole student gathering will be very awkward, and you will become the object of ridicule. Therefore, if you want to be more brilliant at the student gathering, you must avoid the above four words.
