What should I do when I always chat with others in the cold? Some friends are very good at talking. After talking to others for a long time, they don't respond. Why? Because you are a self congratulatory speaker who doesn't talk about the topics that other people are interested in, that is, you can't chat, and it's easy to talk to death. So how to find a topic to talk about so as not to be cold? Let's teach you two moves.
First move: good at finding common topics
In particular, when looking for topics in one-on-one chat, we should make a corresponding analysis based on what the other person likes and dislikes, and what you like and dislikes. Only when you have something in common, you can talk more and more and expand the topic more widely. But how on earth should we know what the other party likes and dislikes? You can find out what hobbies the other person will have through his or her circle of friends, friends around him or her, social media, and daily chat. The best way to talk one-on-one is to find common topics, and the best way is to talk about our ordinary life.
Second move: find opinion leaders
Finding opinion leaders is mainly suitable for one to many chat occasions. Find the person who dominates the whole topic and drives the atmosphere. To find this person, you need to analyze what you have in common with opinion leaders, what you like, what you are good at, common knowledge, common contacts, etc. Therefore, the chat mode of finding common topics has been enabled. In this way, you can participate in a wider one to many chat.
It is very important to find common topics when chatting with people in a cold place, but there are many ways to find common topics. You can find others' preferences through their social media, so that you can talk about other people's favorite topics and let them chat more and more.
