Many friends always offend others because they speak too straight. This is not uncommon in life, but how about speaking straight? Here are three tips to make your interpersonal relationship more harmonious.
It is inevitable that there will be some better ways to talk around corners in life, because you can make the other person more willing to listen and understand your meaning, and also make the other person accept your suggestions and opinions. Let's learn the three skills of turning.
1. Be good at packaging and expressing your own language and vocabulary.
Why do Chinese people often pay attention to honorific and modest words, because it shows enough respect and care for each other, and makes the other feel more polite and polite. For example, when doing sales, tell the other party directly that we should sign a contract and an agreement. Such words will make the other party very sensitive. So we can use another way of expression, which can be said as follows: we can confirm in writing, come to see our written documents, and see what needs to be supplemented. This kind of expression is easier for the other party to accept, because it is a normal expression, which makes the other party feel neutral and normal and easy to accept.
2. Be good at expressing feelings in another way.
Sometimes it is difficult to refuse multiple requests and requests. At this time, we can use a third party
